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December 13th, 2007, 12:39 PM
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well, I don't know what the heck is going on with my body this month. It's my first cycle since m/c (Nov 17th) so I'm sure that's is the reason everything is messed up but I'm just so ###### confused... I'm on CD27 (my usual cycle is around 34 days) and I really don't think I ovulated yet. I didn't get any of my usual symptoms, plus I've been getting negative OPK's everyday for the last 2 weeks. BUT, the weird thing is that when it comes to my CM, my "cup runneth over"... like, sometimes there are blobs of it in the toilet after I pee...

I just don't know what's going on. The amount of CM is equal to what I have when I ovulate and it is stretchy, but it's not clear, and it hasn't been at any point this month. It's creamy and most of the time slightly yellowish. And, it's been there for quite some time now. DH and I only BD'd 2x this month, once on either the 27th or the 28th (can't exactly remember when) and once on the 6th... and no, we weren't protecting.. but I was checking for ovulation with opk's, I did none of the raised hips stuff, AND went right to the little girls room to pee afterwards (I get bladder infections)... I feel almost everyday like I'm about to start my period (mild cramping every once in a while).. but it's just not coming.. although I'm not really even late til this time next week according to my normal cycles

I can't imagine that I would be pregnant (as wonderful at that would be) because of how infrequently we DTD... we weren't even trying... and I have no other real symptoms... when I was pregnant before the m/c I had really sore boobs, and some nausea... but now, other than the CM and the occasional heartburny/blah feeling I get when I'm hungry, nothing!!!! So, I don't think I'm pregnant... BUT..........

What the heck is going on?!?!?!?!?!?! AF is due on the 21st which means that my CM should be very little or non-existant at this point... This sucks cuz I swore after last month that I wouldn't test until I was way late (don't want to know if I have another chemical)...

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December 13th, 2007, 12:46 PM
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I'm sorry your body is messing with you. Mine is doing the same. I've heard OPKs aren't reliable right after a m/c, and you may not even O (sorry). It may take a few months for your body to normalize, but I'm sure you will get pg again soon with a sticky bean. Or you MAY be pg now...but I would wait until AF is due to test so you don't have to see a BFN. Good luck!
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December 13th, 2007, 12:53 PM
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Im so sorry I dont really know what to say. Maybe you didnt O because its still so soon since you lost your baby, and your cycles may still be wackky.

I hope the get normal soon!!
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December 13th, 2007, 01:27 PM
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I'm sorry your body is being so confusing for you!!! I'm not too sure if we even O after we m/c because our bodies need to get back to it's 'normal'.

I agree with waiting until AF is suppose to come and test, just to see what the result is.

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December 13th, 2007, 01:41 PM
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Hey.. i agree with everyone else.. but also.. you might not have Oed.. and you might not even get your AF for a few weeks past the time youre expecting it..sometimes it takes a long time to come back.. I hope you do though... i got mine exactly 4 weeks after my m/c ...so yours might come right on time too..

But i really dont think i Oed that month ..

The extra CM is probably just your body doing double duty and getting rid of anything that might be remaining, to prepare to go back to normal... maybe

But that would be Great if you do find out your pregnant! how nice!

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December 13th, 2007, 02:29 PM
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I hope that you either start AF or find out you are pregnant soon rather than the dreaded waiting game. Please keep us posted. (((HUGS)))
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December 13th, 2007, 05:32 PM
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The slighly yellow stuff thats coming out on the tp might be from a yeast infection? Usually with mine i don't have much itch so thats how i can usually tell i have them because i get that too. Maybe this helps i dunno but thats what i think its from.
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