[*Bobbie*]

So my kids come home from their Dads tonight. My son (16) tells me he saw an u/s pic on the fridge there this week. It was behind a magnet and turned backwards. So he asked me if I would call my ex and ask him about it. Well.... yep the girl is PG. My ex is 35 and the girl is 23. Life is so unfair. I am happy for him if he is happy, but man this sucks And it hits home pretty hard. He never wanted me to have the kids we do have. His first choice was for me to have an abortion which I refused. Now he gets a chance to start a family all over again and I most likely get to go for fertility treatment. GRRR
Oh well.... at least there will be a baby around here soon. Even if it isn't *mine*.

It's bittersweet... I am happy for him and sad for me.

[heatherrose415]

oh that would be sooooo hard I am sooo sorry, makes me all teary!!! we are here for you, i understand your feelinsg and you have a right to feel them.

[tparum]

sending very very big ol youre way

[steph&dan]

That is rough! I hope things work out for you soon, and maybe this new baby will help him be a better person.

[Madison.N.Hailey'sMom]

Aw Bobbie I'm sorry that you are having to go through this but it will be you with the ultra sound picture on the fridge before you know it.

[victorialv]

Aw Bobbie I'm sorry that you are having to go through this but it will be you with the ultra sound picture on the fridge before you know it. [/b]

I second that!! I am so sorry, it is tough to see other pregnant people, but when it hits that close to home and in that way, I imagine it is so much harder! But I just know your little baby is up there waiting his/her turn to come down and meet his/her momma!

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[Danica]

Oh man, that would be really hard to deal with. I really hope you have an u/s pic to post on the fridge soon! (((HUGS)))