It was a chemical pg I guess

priddymama · #1 December 17th, 2007, 06:48 PM

Hey Everyone

Just checking in to see how all you gals are doing.

Our vacation is going great except I started bleeding today ALOT. The heaviest AF I've ever had which I think confirms that my 3 Big Blaring BFP I had last week were a chemical. I tested again after the weird control line test and it too was negative but told myself I would wait since my bbs were still so sore and all that.
Oh well, it was exciting while it lasted. My doctor had told me that there was a great possiblity that this could happen within the first 3 months after my m/c but it's so hard not to test!!!!

The hardest thing was yesterday at my sister's baby shower one of my mom's friends came with her new baby and is all like " and when are you due" (I guess my mom had told her about my pg before and she didn't know about the m/c) So I had to tell her about that and then another friend who is pg walked in and is talking about her due date which is one day after mine would have been. So as happy as I am for my sister and all of them it still stung, ya know??

Okay, enough of my pity party. Thanks for listening.

Mum2three · #2 December 17th, 2007, 06:57 PM

Awww hun im so sorry to hear about that. I wish that none of us had to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you!!! Take care of yourself!!

Danica · #3 December 17th, 2007, 08:54 PM

Oh no

I am so sorry. I wish this didn't ever happen to anyone

(((HUGS)))

keekopeeko · #4 December 18th, 2007, 06:13 AM

i didnt see this until this morning.. im so heartbroken for you.. you sound like you are taking it pretty well...

and baby showers are NO fun to go to so soon after a m/c ...and a chemical... im sure it was hard!

~Em

luvmygirls · #5 December 18th, 2007, 08:27 AM

Awww honey I'm so sorry! You are so strong to have gone to that baby shower so soon after a m/c AND a chemical! I'm sure you'll be pg again with a sticky baby really soon!

steph&dan · #6 December 18th, 2007, 08:29 AM

it stinks when someone who doesn't know that you had a m/c comes up and starts talking to you about your pregnancy that no longer exists. That happened to me twice last week at work. Only they came up and put their hand on my belly and said, awww, look at your little bump. I had to tell them, nope... thats just fat now.