I totally agree, the waiting (and loss) sucks big time... but seeing all their successes sort of makes you realize that more often than not, there is a life at the end of the tunnel... although for some, that tunnel is sooooooooooooooooooooo friggen long... That's why it's up to us to plant lots of flowers and shine some light to make the journey a bit less dreary for each other!!!
I'm corny, I know.. but definitely true!!!