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December 20th, 2007, 05:12 PM
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Super Mommy
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well we knew that it wouldnt be long but i still cant believe that he is gone......I was holding his hand and told him to go dance with his wife who has been dead 13 yrs he took a final breath and was gone. I just cant believe it, I lost my other grandpa 3 years ago dec. 24 now this one will be buried dec. 24 ugh i cant do anything but cry
melissa
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December 20th, 2007, 05:15 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
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AWW  Melissa. I am soooo sorry 
I was with my Grandma when she passed too. I have never experienced anything like that before. If you need anything, just ask 
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December 20th, 2007, 05:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry for your loss
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December 20th, 2007, 05:18 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Washington, DC Suburbs
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Oh Melissa,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know it's hard, especially around the holidays and having to bury him on Christmas Eve must be agonizing. Try to find comfort in the fact that he and your late grandmother are reunited now, and he's definitely in a better place where there is no more suffering or pain. I will say a prayer for you and your family.
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December 20th, 2007, 05:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: California
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I am sooooo sorry that had to be so so hard!!!
((HUGS))
we are here for you!
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December 20th, 2007, 05:24 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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Melissa, I'm SO so so so sorry!!!
Reading this brings back memories of when I got the call that my Nan had died in 2005. I dropped to my knees in the middle of the sidewalk and screamed and bawled my eyes out. I have tears in my eyes just thinking about it right now.
I wish there was something I could do! All I can say is -- remember the good times you shared with him. I know that's going to be hard the next few days, but it sure does help. Think back to those good, fun times. And remember, both your grandma and grandpa are up there in Heaven, looking down on their WONDERFUL granddaughter! Telling her not to cry, but to remember the good times they all shared together.
Ok...now I'M crying! 
I'm SO sorry sweetie!!! Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!
Jessica
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December 20th, 2007, 05:40 PM
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Melissa, I cant begin to say how sorry i am to hear about this. It brought tears to my eyes. I lost my DH granda last year right on Christmas day, while we were in Newfoundland having Christmas dinner. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Think about the positive side to this, now you have your own personal Guardian angel.
Remember all the silly jokes he would tell you it will make u smile. Thats what he wants is everyone to laugh and have a good time. Take Care Sweetie....
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December 20th, 2007, 06:06 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2006
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I am so sorry for your loss. It is never easy to let loved ones go.
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December 20th, 2007, 06:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
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I am so sorry for the passing of your grandpa, especially at this time of year. I am sure it meant a lot to him that you were there with him in his final moments. I hope you can find some peace in the fact that your grandparents are back together again.
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December 20th, 2007, 10:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: California
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Awe Melissa!!! I am so sorry!!!! But it is a beautiful image in my mind seeing him dancing with your grandma. I know I have never seen him but I can just picture it! How beautiful that they are together again. I am so sorry that you are hurting! It is so tough to lose a loved one.
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December 21st, 2007, 05:23 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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i'm so sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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December 21st, 2007, 05:43 AM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: NB, Canada
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I'm sooooooo sorry for your lost...
It's been years, but I lost my mom at Christmas time too. I know that she's here with us in spirit though. I also think it's a wonderful thing you said to him before he passed. This is the first Christmas he will spend with his wife in so many years. Try to take comfort in that... A co-worker made a comment to me once, after I lost the baby, that this year, my mom was meant to rock her grandchild on Christmas, not me... Different, but kinda the same...
No matter what we say though, it still hurts... Hugs to you and your family through this difficult time...
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December 21st, 2007, 05:41 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: the lower 48
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ohh Melissa, I'm so sorry to hear that. What you said to him was beautiful though. Maybe that was what gave him permission to let go, you know? (((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))
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December 21st, 2007, 06:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
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Im so so so sry for ur loss
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