Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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December 21st, 2007, 12:15 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Tulare, CA
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So anyway i'm done TTC, i'm pissed off about charting. I felt like i O'd and i never got the right temps after that and i can't do them at the same excat time everyday.I really getting pissed off about charting, if i dont stop TTC i'm done charting, i hate it its a pain in my #####. Sorry girls i'm just a little pissed off about it.
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December 21st, 2007, 12:55 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2007
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I'm sorry you're having a hard time sweetie!! I know it can be frustrating. If it helps, I've never charted because I think I would be the same way as you about it. It would never work for me, I'd get irritated, and just give up.
Maybe just take some time off?? That would give you some time to just breathe and relax. Plus, you don't HAVE to chart to TTC. I've never, ever done it, and we've conceived three times. I just sort of estimate when I would be O'ing and we DTD frequently around that time. I also use OPK's, which work well for me, but I never, ever chart. Waaaayyyyy too complicated for me!!
Sorry again hun!! We all go through those frustrating times, so feel free to vent to us!!! We understand!
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December 21st, 2007, 01:09 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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yeah i never charted with my other 3 pregnancys, this last one i just checked my CM and CP and i got pregnant the first month trying. I think im going to go back to doing that and i will prolly try the OPK's
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December 21st, 2007, 01:20 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
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 I am sorry you are having a rough time with charting. I would say just take a break from charting and TTC the *old fashioned way*  I don't chart, use OPK, etc, but got pregnant quickly when we started trying just by watching CM and BD every other day during that peak time.
Don't give up completely...we'd miss you too much!
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12 
 
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December 21st, 2007, 01:27 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Join Date: Nov 2007
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aww thanks, i don't think i could leave JM lol i would miss everyone too much. I'm prolly going to go back to just checking CM and CP, seemed to work for us last month
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December 21st, 2007, 01:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: St. John's Newfoundland
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Awww, i know its hard, i was you a couple of months ago. i finally quit the charting deleted all my accounts. cause i was to under pressure. and just DTD to get pregnant. and thats not how i wanted to conceive any of my children. and that next month i found out that all the stress and tears and all the pee sticks i wasnt stressed anymore. I just had fun with DH. and now im pregnant with baby # 3!!! so throw everything out and just have fun!! we are all here to help you through your journey. Im sure in no time you will have your little bundle of joy!!
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December 21st, 2007, 04:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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I charted for 1 whole day! It was WAY too confusing for me!!!
When I got pregnant with Quinn, I was just watching the calendar, estimated when I O'd, and boom -- got pregnant!
I hope you conceive soon, I really do!!!!
Here's some early  for ya!!!
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December 21st, 2007, 06:41 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Tulare, CA
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thank you
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December 21st, 2007, 08:51 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: California
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I don't plan on ever charting. It just seems way to complicated and requires to much work IMO! So just take it easy and have some fun (I know easier said than done).
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December 22nd, 2007, 07:14 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
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Charting is not for everyone.... it can be a PIA 
I am glad you aren't done TTC just done charting. I got scared for a minute there
You can still use FF to track CP, CM and BDing.
to you!
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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