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HavensMomma · #1 December 28th, 2007, 09:58 PM

Hey Ladies, im Lisa and i was a part of the May 08 DDC but lost my baby @ around 13 weeks due to a partial molar pregnancy. Because of the PMP we are technically not suppose to TTC for atleast 6 months. However we intend to be "sneaky" & start not using protection as soon as my HCG levels are back to normal (which should be in the next 2 weeks) and i have had 1 normal cycle. Since it took us so long to concieve last time (around 7 months) i don't want to wait the extra 6 months, kwim? I'm going to pray that GOD will know the right time for us to get pregnant again! Anyway just wanted to introduce myself while we are waiting to try!

..Jessica.. · #2 December 28th, 2007, 11:19 PM

Hello Lisa!

I'm so sorry you hear of your loss!!!

I can understand your reasoning for not wanting to wait 6 months to conceive! Did your doctor tell you why he/she recommended waiting 6 months?

I hope you and Riley are able to conceive as soon as you're ready, and are able to make Haven a big brother real soon!!! You're going to love it here!!! This board is amazing!!

and to you!!!

Melanie0507 · #3 December 29th, 2007, 06:43 AM

Hi Lisa! I recognize you from the PL board, but just wanted to welcome you over here! This is a fun, supportive group of women and I really think you will like it here!

Hope you get your BFP soon with a sticky, sticky bean!

keekopeeko · #4 December 29th, 2007, 06:43 AM

Hi...im glad to see you in here now... There seems like there is way to many MDDC members in this place... but at least we are here for eachother!! and danica even just got her new BFP! (sorry for not letting you share the news Danica!!)

Welcome

~Em

*Judy* · #5 December 29th, 2007, 08:30 AM

Welcome Lisa!!!! Sorry for your loss and that you have to come here but let me tell you this is a great group of gals and they have so much knowledge. I hope you get to join a DDC soon!

heatherrose415 · #6 December 29th, 2007, 10:19 AM

I am very sorry for your loss

I hope you get a BFP when you are ready!

Jessica, with a molar pregnancy I believe it can turn into cancer, so they watch your HCG levels really carefully for fluctuations, they want to make sure there is absolutely no cancer before you get pregnant again, mosyt of the time you are fine, i think cancer only happens in 2-5% or something like that.

HavensMomma · #7 December 29th, 2007, 05:58 PM

Thanks for the warm welcome, im looking forward to posting here!!

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Jessica, with a molar pregnancy I believe it can turn into cancer, so they watch your HCG levels really carefully for fluctuations, they want to make sure there is absolutely no cancer before you get pregnant again, mosyt of the time you are fine, i think cancer only happens in 2-5% or something like that.[/b]

Yes, with a molar pregnancy it can turn into cancer and there is only like a 5% chance & it's even lower with a partial mole (which is what i had) & since my levels have dropped really quick, i think that even makes the chance lower. The weird thing though is my DR didn't recommend anything different (like waiting longer to TTC) when he diagnosed me with the PMP, it's just what i've read on the internet that says the 6 month- 1year wait. So im not sure if he just forgot or he doesn't think we need to wait? Either way we've already made up our mind, lol.

MinDB · #8 December 29th, 2007, 06:28 PM

hi! i remember you from the May DDC! sorry about your loss.

there's a bunch of great, supportive ladies here! i love them all and i'm sure you will, too!

*Bobbie* · #9 December 29th, 2007, 08:32 PM

Hi Lisa and

Enjoy your stay here. I hope it's short and sweet

But we do have an unwritten rule.....

PG or not you still have to stay here and post with us

jademyst13 · #10 December 29th, 2007, 08:33 PM

I already kind of know you from PL, but welcome over here!!

HavensMomma · #11 December 29th, 2007, 09:09 PM

Thanks ladies

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Enjoy your stay here. I hope it's short and sweet But we do have an unwritten rule.....

PG or not you still have to stay here and post with us[/b]

Deal

tparum · #12 December 29th, 2007, 09:50 PM

Hi and welcome and im so sry for ur loss. ull love this board these ladies are so great.

Danica · #13 December 30th, 2007, 06:11 AM

Hi Lisa, I am so sorry you lost your little one. I am glad you found your way over to ttcal though. This really is the best, most supportive AND crazy group of ladies on JM

I hope those levels drop quickly and that you'll have a BFP within the next couple of months. Good luck!!

Em, you crack me up. Of course I don't mind you sharing LOL

luvmygirls · #14 December 30th, 2007, 08:30 AM

I am sorry for your loss...I remember you from the May DDC. Welcome! You will just love it here! I hope you get your BFP soon.

HavensMomma · #15 December 30th, 2007, 02:04 PM

Thanks ladies! I hope we all get BFPs very soon! And Danica- Congratulations!!

victorialv · #16 December 30th, 2007, 05:52 PM

Hi Lisa,

I was also a member of the May DDC. I am very sorry for your loss.

I know you will love it here though, everyone is so sweet and kind, and FUNNY too!!

Christal · #17 December 30th, 2007, 06:10 PM

Hi Lisa sorry it took me so long to welcome you it has just been crazy around here. I was also in the May DDC with you. I am so sorry for your loss. You have found the perfect place though. I say have fun and see what happens. Hope you get a sticky bean soon.