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December 30th, 2007, 03:09 PM
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Here's the past few days...
we shall see.. i think we caught the eggie.. but its a matter of whether or not it happens.. you can do everything right and still nothing sometimes...
im pretty sure my temps will be up tomorrow
~Em
UPDATE:
Well i got my crosshairs today! so thats a yay.. confirms that i did indead O on the 30th... I hate that we DTD 4 days in a row.. By the time we got to my O day his spermies were probably worn out.. I usually try to work it so its just three days in a row... oh well.. i did what i could! i Oed late...
Can you get pregnant the day your temps rise? the day after?? or even the day after that? anyone know?
now its just the wait... i really dont feel like i got pregnant this time though... not yet i dont anyways... I cant decide if thats a good thing though... Last month i felt like i was gonna get pregnant for sure and didnt... and everytime that i have actually been pregnant i didnt think that i was until i tested.. or as in with my second one.. (baby E) I knew a couple days before AF was due that i probably was, but no sooner...
Who knows..its in Gods hands.. i just dont know how many more months of "trying" i can handle.. its so all consuming..
well i need to go.. i think i might go shopping today and spend my gift cards!
~Em
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December 30th, 2007, 03:11 PM
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December 30th, 2007, 04:07 PM
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December 30th, 2007, 04:09 PM
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WOOHOO! Lots and lots of baby dust!!!
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December 30th, 2007, 04:43 PM
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I'm in the 2ww with ya!!! Lets hope we all get those BFPs this month!!!!! LOL sick of Bding??? You crack me up!!!!
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December 30th, 2007, 04:44 PM
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December 30th, 2007, 05:38 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh, I hope you caught the eggie too!!! Lots of baby dust coming your way!!!
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December 30th, 2007, 06:12 PM
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Yay Em welcome to the pure torture of the 2WW I am here also. I hope you get a BFP soon.
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December 30th, 2007, 08:18 PM
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Come on BABIES! Swim hard, jump over any obstacle, you can do it!!!!!!!!!
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December 31st, 2007, 07:14 AM
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December 31st, 2007, 07:55 AM
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Thank you! i was very pleased with the jump as well.. its always a releif to see everything falling into place...
i usually O on the 14th day.. i guess that means i will have to wait an extra day to see if i get my period too huh...
~Em
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December 31st, 2007, 07:58 AM
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Good luck! It definitely looks like you Oed yesterday! I'm pretty sure I did too because I was feeling crampy last night. I didn't get a temp increase this morning, but I don't think I slept more than an hour or two at a time last night.
How cool is that, we probably Oed on the same day! When are you testing?
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December 31st, 2007, 08:04 AM
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Quote:
Good luck! It definitely looks like you Oed yesterday! I'm pretty sure I did too because I was feeling crampy last night. I didn't get a temp increase this morning, but I don't think I slept more than an hour or two at a time last night.
How cool is that, we probably Oed on the same day! When are you testing?[/b]
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yeh.. when i dont get enough sleep it always messes up my temps too..
Ill probably try to wait until i am 12 DPO this time.. i would like to say id wait until the day im supposed to start but i know myself to well.. and that aint happening...
~Em
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Good luck! It definitely looks like you Oed yesterday! I'm pretty sure I did too because I was feeling crampy last night. I didn't get a temp increase this morning, but I don't think I slept more than an hour or two at a time last night.
How cool is that, we probably Oed on the same day! When are you testing?[/b]
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and i wanted to add.. way to go getting your DH to BD two days in a row.. I know thats kinda a struggle for you... We were just gonna do 3 days in a row because i normally O on day 14 and i didnt.. so we had to add a day... and that was actually pretty much a deposit...  But its all good.. haha
~Em
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December 31st, 2007, 08:25 AM
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and i wanted to add.. way to go getting your DH to BD two days in a row.. I know thats kinda a struggle for you... We were just gonna do 3 days in a row because i normally O on day 14 and i didnt.. so we had to add a day... and that was actually pretty much a deposit... But its all good.. haha
~Em[/b]
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You know, we were arguing about something and TTC came up and he said I was stressing about it too much, that I should relax and it would happen (arg!). And I told him it was stressful to me to feel like I had to time everything perfectly. And then he said he's fine with doing it 3-4 times the week I think I'm fertile. This totally came out of nowhere, I was really surprised.  So then I asked how often and he said every other day and then he said we could do a couple in a row if I was sure I was ovulating! He was true to his word! I ovulated really early this cycle though, if I hadn't been checking CP and doing OPKs, I might have missed it.
I am impressed with your BDing girl! I can understand why you're tired of it!
I'll probably test 12 DPO. I've never had a luteal phase that was longer than 12 days so that will be close to when AF is going to show.
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December 31st, 2007, 06:16 PM
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Hey Em!! I just wanted to let you know that making us wait until 12 DPO is just not FAIR!! I am living vicariously through you ladies right now since I am waiting a couple cycles, and that is just too long for me!!!
JK of course!! But, if you can go that long w/out getting the urge, then hats off to you girl!
Hoping for a BFP for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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December 31st, 2007, 06:23 PM
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I guess I could possibly be in the 2ww too. =p I always wait longer to test because it never shows up early for me.
Loads of  for you!!!
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January 2nd, 2008, 06:29 AM
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BUMP.. updated in first post
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January 2nd, 2008, 07:24 AM
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Yay for crosshairs! Now we just wait. AHHHH, I hate the waiting. KUP
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January 2nd, 2008, 10:12 AM
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 at you all!
This thread is hilarious!
Em.... YAY for crosshairs!!!! I think this is gonna be your month!!!!!
 and more
I hope to be joining you girls in the 2ww very soon. Maybe tomorrow
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