[Solace]

Pregnant people. Fertile people. People with kids. People with kids who never wanted them or shouldn't have them!


Seriously.


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Good people who are responsible and been trying and can't because...?!?!!?!


Kill me.

[*Bobbie*]

I soooo hear you!

I seems to be surrounded by them at the worst times.

How about the ones that dump them on just anyone so they can go hit the bar??? UGH


Okay now I feel better too




You WILL get your BFP.... just know that. And YOU will be an awesome MOM!

[Solace]

I soooo hear you!

I seems to be surrounded by them at the worst times.

How about the ones that dump them on just anyone so they can go hit the bar??? UGH


Okay now I feel better too




You WILL get your BFP.... just know that. And YOU will be an awesome MOM![/b]

I hear you. And I swear, if I wasn't trying to conceive so hard I'd go hit up a bar and drink my brains out because it depresses me so much.

[*Bobbie*]

AWWW

Life is NOT fair sometimes. But we are better than that

Do you want to talk about who made you mad? I am a good listener!

If not have another

[Solace]

AWWW

Life is NOT fair sometimes. But we are better than that

Do you want to talk about who made you mad? I am a good listener!

If not have another [/b]

Nobody in particular. In fact, everyone I know who is pregnant or had a baby already is really cool. It's just frustrating. I guess I never figured that I'd struggle to get pregnant. It seems so surreal. Like it's not happening to me. And days and weeks seem like forever. Why doesn't HCG show up sooner? RAR!

[keekopeeko]

i posted a blog about this on my myspace once just recently... i made a couple people mad at me... and one person telling me i need to step back and take a break from TTC... which when you want your kids close together...and are just aching for another baby you CANT...

its not like we hate those people.. its not like we dont even think God has a wonderful plan for them with their unexpected babies! .. its just that we DONT understand WHY its taking US...the ones with marriages..and jobs.... and stability ... SOOO freakin long to get pregnant.. and to KEEP that baby... thus we need to vent out frusterations now and then...

~Em

[Christal]

I totally know how you feel. It seems like everywhere I go everyone is preg. My neighbour just had a baby a month ago she didnt even know who the father was.Not only that but a week after the baby was born she asked me to watch him because she wanted to go out and party. She was saying the baby had colic really bad and al he did was cry well she was breast feeding him and he was losing weight. Well while he was with me he had a bottle and ate like he was starving and didnt cry at all the entire 9 hrs he was at my house. He was starving I told her and he is fine now and gaining lots of weight. I could understand if this was her first baby but it is her 3rd and as a mom you can just tell when a baby is hungry. She had starved him for a whole week after she realized when she tried pumping her milk nothing was coming out. Then there is the 11 yr old next door that had a baby last year when she was 10 he is 6 months old now. It really hurts sometime when you see all of that and it makes me really angry also. The only thing I can think of is it has to be in Gods timing or his plan. I guess thats what helps me through it.

[Solace]

its not like we hate those people.. its not like we dont even think God has a wonderful plan for them with their unexpected babies! .. its just that we DONT understand WHY its taking US...the ones with marriages..and jobs.... and stability ... SOOO freakin long to get pregnant.. and to KEEP that baby... thus we need to vent out frusterations now and then...[/b]

Yeah.

I totally know how you feel. It seems like everywhere I go everyone is preg. My neighbour just had a baby a month ago she didnt even know who the father was.Not only that but a week after the baby was born she asked me to watch him because she wanted to go out and party. She was saying the baby had colic really bad and al he did was cry well she was breast feeding him and he was losing weight. Well while he was with me he had a bottle and ate like he was starving and didnt cry at all the entire 9 hrs he was at my house. He was starving I told her and he is fine now and gaining lots of weight. I could understand if this was her first baby but it is her 3rd and as a mom you can just tell when a baby is hungry. She had starved him for a whole week after she realized when she tried pumping her milk nothing was coming out. Then there is the 11 yr old next door that had a baby last year when she was 10 he is 6 months old now. It really hurts sometime when you see all of that and it makes me really angry also. The only thing I can think of is it has to be in Gods timing or his plan. I guess thats what helps me through it.[/b]

I would like to think that everything is in God's Grace, but sometimes I wonder why He would want to see me suffer over something so instinctive.