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January 3rd, 2008, 09:24 PM
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All right ladies, I need some words of encouragement here. I will be 10 dpo tomorrow. I DO NOT want to test. I want to wait until I am late, but I have 2 FRER sitting under the counter in my bathroom, I swear I keep hearing them say "Come on Judy you know you want to test, just do it!". I am trying super hard not to think about it. I don't want to waste the test and then have to go out and buy more if it's a BFN. It's not the $$$ it's the principle, if those stupid test's won't give me what I want then I don't want to buy them, LOL. I need to have some self control. Not only that but if I do get a BFP I want to suprise hubby (his Bday is the 18th) so I have to do a sneak and test when I test. Which can be quite difficult with my man around. I swear sometimes I think he is glued to my side. Help ladies...remind me how it's better to wait and all that. But let me also say I want to test this month because I didn't even get that pleasure last month as A/F snuck up on me 2 days early.. Sorry for the ramble but thanks for reading! MMMWWWAAAHHH to you all!
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January 3rd, 2008, 09:37 PM
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Judy.... Seriously.... wait till at least 12dpo. Some embies don't even implant till 12dpo making it way to early to test even at 12dpo. That is the logical part of me talking. One of these months I am going to find the self control to actually wait to test. Testing early just makes me wacko. Plus I would rather be able to imagine myself PG instead of seeing a BFN and thinking I'm not.... KWIM?

The silly side says... what the heck are you waiting for?

I can be a cheer squad either way.

Judy you can do it....... just think how much darker that line will be when you do test. Think of all the "do I see a shadow... or is it a line" hassle you won't have to deal with. If you wait the answer will be clear

cause this soooo has to be your turn for a BFP
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January 3rd, 2008, 09:39 PM
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I've learned to wait. I'm totally a POAS addict, but when I'm really wanting it to be a bfp then I wait. I always get late positives. So I understand your pain honey! You can wait, you can wait! You can do it!
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January 3rd, 2008, 09:44 PM
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WAAAAAIIIIIITTTTTTTTTT

LOL ok wait tell u are 12 dpo hun to at least start testing just to be on the safe side

good luck and babydust
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January 3rd, 2008, 09:55 PM
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I say wait until you're 12DPO as well. I'm a POAS-holic too, and waiting KIND OF helps the time go by faster. Make sense?
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January 3rd, 2008, 10:18 PM
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Judy.... this is what happens when you test to early.... and yep it was in the 10 minute window.....

I figured I would *take one for the team* LMAO... and silly me hasn't even Oed yet. Actually it was all Dave's idea cause I said I feel like crap, I have had pulling sensations all day, my face broke out, and my boobs hurt!

So this is what happens when you test too early....



Now step away from the test!!!!
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January 4th, 2008, 01:57 AM
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Wait!!!! I know it's hard, but it will be worth it
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January 4th, 2008, 05:35 AM
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wait!!! it seems that everytime i tested too early and too much, i never got pg--the only times i got pg was when i waited and was patient....
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January 4th, 2008, 06:33 AM
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[quote]
Judy.... this is what happens when you test to early.... and yep it was in the 10 minute window.....

I figured I would *take one for the team* LMAO... and silly me hasn't even Oed yet. Actually it was all Dave's idea cause I said I feel like crap, I have had pulling sensations all day, my face broke out, and my boobs hurt!

So this is what happens when you test too early....



Now step away from the test!!!!
[/quoteOh my Goodness!!! Bobbie you so crack me up and Daveis such an enabler!!!! LMAO!!!!! Alright ladies I layed in bed this morning before peeing and talked myself out of it so we are good today, just a few more days...keep the encouragement coming. Thanks for listening and all. You are such wonderful cheerleaders!!!
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