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January 7th, 2008, 05:23 PM
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just me
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Okay, a girl just joined the Sept. DDC with a Sept. 17 due date. If I O'd dec 26 (my latest date) I'd be due Sept. 17. She got her bfp last night, and I got a bfn yesterday morning.
I don't think I'm pregnant.
So what's wrong with me? I even got car sick on the way home from picking my sister up from the airport today, and I only get carsick when I'm pregnant!
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January 7th, 2008, 05:48 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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You're re-testing on Wednesday, I bet it'll be a dark then!!
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January 7th, 2008, 05:51 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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it's not over yet! good luck babe!!
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January 7th, 2008, 05:52 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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good luck!!
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January 7th, 2008, 07:33 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Don't give up yet! You're not out until the  shows!
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12

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January 7th, 2008, 07:44 PM
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just me
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Ugh, I'm just frustrated.
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January 7th, 2008, 09:22 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry your frustrated Brittanie. Sometimes women get BFPs later than others, even if they did ovulate on the same day. Don't give up hope until the witch shows her face.
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January 7th, 2008, 09:31 PM
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IF I'm preggers, I'd be due Sept. 25th, but because of my long crappy cycles, I probably wouldn't get a BFP until January 18th or later. I know what it's like to have to wait! I hope you ARE pregnant and are having a September 17th baby!!!
to you!!!!
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January 7th, 2008, 09:38 PM
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Thanks ladies. DH told me today that he's really hoping I'm not pregnant. *sigh* I don't blame him because I get so SICK when I'm pregnant and now really isn't a good time for me to be again.
But I've gotten attached to the idea. *sigh*
You ladies are wonderful.
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January 7th, 2008, 09:44 PM
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If you are, then it was meant to be! If not, then you try again. I know it's not that easy though!! I know the feeling of disappointment when it comes to TTC!! 
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January 7th, 2008, 10:23 PM
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Yeah, we won't actually be TTC for at least another year. That's what DH says anyway. I'd like to sooner. If I am pregnant now, it'll be an oops.
=p Sort of. I mean, I was fully aware of the possibility when DH asked if I was sure I was okay not having protection, and that's sort of the reason I said okay.
Am I bad?
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January 7th, 2008, 10:26 PM
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No, you aren't bad!!!!
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January 8th, 2008, 05:23 AM
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It still could be possible. Dont feel to bad I am on CD32 of what is normally a 30 day cycle. Tested yesterday and got a BFN. I hate not knowing.
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January 8th, 2008, 05:35 AM
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Brittanie, I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I know exactly how you feel. We haven't been actively trying because I'm working on losing weight (which has really changed my cycles to normal) and I want to be healthy. Even so, it's been over a year since we lost our bean, but with long cycles, don't have the same number of chances.
I should be O'g sometime in the next couple of days and we are dtd to see what happens. I get so discouraged when the witch shows up.
I can't really get any help until I get to my goal weight because the healthcare here is specific about certain treatments and who gets it. Since I'm overweight, I won't qualify. But it gives me something to reach for when I do get there if we're not successful.
We are thinking about trying one of the home sprem test to see if it's my hubby that has a problem. Just don't know how reliable they are.
Anyway, sorry to steer off a bit. I do hope you get your bfp, there is always hope until the witch shows up.
Lots of babydust your way!
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January 8th, 2008, 05:38 AM
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those long cycles would drive me crazy! ive only ever had one cycle last until day29 and i was SO MAD...
i can imagine what you ladies must be going through!
But didnt you say you always get late BFPs brit???
~Em
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January 8th, 2008, 08:38 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sorry you are feeling down but just look at Mindy and me. Go back and look at her post of her first BFP versus mine. Hers was WAYYYY dark and mine I thought was an evap. I am even considered to be due 1 day before her (althought the doc might move that out). So I guess what I am trying to say is that everyone is different and that you may not be out. You are still having major pregnancy symptoms. Please KUP
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January 8th, 2008, 09:56 AM
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Thanks girls. I'm feeling better today. I think I'll take the results I get tomorrow as conclusive.
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January 8th, 2008, 01:04 PM
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Veteran
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Sending happy BFP vibes your way! Remember, everyone is different and our hormone levels are different!
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