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January 8th, 2008, 05:45 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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I'm really upset right now! All I can think about is I would have been delivering my baby in almost 5 weeks, I'd be changing his/her diaper, washing their hair, changing their clothes, singing to them at night, waking up at 3am to feed him/her -- I'm a complete mess!!!!!
All I want is to be pregnant and to be able to experience being a mother. I know my time will come, but when I go lurking EVERYWHERE I feel SO depressed, and I feel that I've failed myself, my husband, my family.
This sucks!
Edited to fix my spelling errors!
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Yep, I think she's on the way! I feel bloated and the scale is telling me the same. I'm having the feelings I get when AF is around the corner! Today (Jan. 9th) marks CD29, so I'm expecting her real soon! I didn't bother taking yesterday's pill and I won't be taking today's either. If she doesn't come by the 18th, I'm sticking with my plan of testing. But it doesn't look too promising right now!! 
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January 8th, 2008, 05:47 PM
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
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 Oh honey. I've played the "what if" game so many times! I'm sorry that Quinn isn't still with you.
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January 8th, 2008, 05:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
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You know I think the weeks leading up to my DD were worse on me than the day itself.
Tons and Tons of
I hope you will be able to be a mommy soon. I know years from now we will looks back on this time and it will feel like it didn't take long at all, but right now it feels like an eternity. I am here for you girl 
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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January 8th, 2008, 05:54 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Oh sweetie - your post made me tear up.....I am so sorry.
I find a lot of similarities between your situation and mine. We must have shared a similar due date. Mine was 2/27 and I have been feeling down lately too. It is heartbreaking to think where we could have been right now, BUT we will be mommies soon!!
We are all in this together, and please know I am rooting for you to get your sticky bean just ASA(humanly)P!!
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January 8th, 2008, 05:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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I can't stop crying!!!!!! The only thing that makes me stop is when I reply to everyone else's posts! 
Victoria -- my due date was February 14th. Sucks that we aren't still pregnant!!!
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January 8th, 2008, 06:00 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: California
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I am so sorry Jessica It is so hard!! my due date is coming up too.
we are all here for you anytime okay!!!
((HUGS))
Heather
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January 8th, 2008, 06:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 2,926
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Yes it DOES!! Know what really killed me?? Christmas shopping and big bellies....ugh, that was tough......
I am very hopeful for 2008 though, and I just know that it is going to happen for us very soon. Thinking of you!
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January 8th, 2008, 07:01 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: California
Posts: 3,320
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Awwwwe Jess!!! I wish you were closer so I could reach out and hug you. I am so sorry you are feeling that way. You are NOT a failure. I wish I could make it better!
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January 8th, 2008, 07:14 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Colorado
Posts: 4,478
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Oh hun I am sorry you are feeling down. You are not a failure and you will be mommy to an earth baby before you know it. You will be a great mommy too. (((HUGS)))
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January 8th, 2008, 07:19 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 4,486
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I'm so sorry Jessica. I can't completely relate, my due date was Feb. 17th. These days leading up to the EDD are so hard for me, it was like this with my last one as well. BIG HUGS.
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