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January 10th, 2008, 03:48 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Doctor basically told me she is concerned. The shape of the egg is not right, not smooth but rather jagged and oblong. The thinks she sees an egg sac but not sure. She couldn't see a fetal pole. She wanted me to do more bloodwork and come back next Friday for a follow up if I don't have bleeding before then.
I hate this.
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January 10th, 2008, 03:55 PM
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January 10th, 2008, 04:25 PM
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 you and bean are in my thoughts and prayers keep us posted hun
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January 10th, 2008, 04:28 PM
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Oh boy! im so sorry to hear that. Try to think positive, u have us to lean on and to support you. I will be thinking about you....Give it time, mabey shes wrong and the u/s machine is just OLD!!!
I will keep you and your little one in my thoughts and prayers.
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January 10th, 2008, 04:35 PM
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 Oh no! I hope everything is alright, I can't believe you have to wait another week to know something more.
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January 10th, 2008, 04:39 PM
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oooooooooh my gosh! i was SO SURE it was gonna be a great appointment! are you doing ok??
you are DEFINATELY in my prayers!!!!
(((HUGS)))
and im really sad too...
~Em
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January 10th, 2008, 04:48 PM
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NOOO!! Not when I just finally got to say Congrats!! I will be praying for you and hope that it was just too early to see any real detail. Think about what Melissa went through when she was about this far along. She was told the same thing basically and now she is 12 wks with a happy, healthy little baby. She even had bleeding. So your not out of the race yet. Come on bean, grow, grow, grow!! Stick, stick, stick!! I'll be thinking about you and praying for you! Hang in there and keep your chin up!!
HUGS,
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January 10th, 2008, 05:02 PM
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OH NO! I'm so sorry. I hope it was just too early.
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January 10th, 2008, 05:21 PM
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Totally random thought I had when I read that? "Maybe the embryo was splitting."
I'm praying for you honey!! STICK BEAN STICK!
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January 10th, 2008, 05:28 PM
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I'm not giving up hope! 
I know the waiting will be so hard though.. I'm so sorry you had to get that news today. I'm hoping for the best.
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January 10th, 2008, 05:32 PM
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Oh no!!!!!
I'm praying that it's too early!!!!!!
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January 10th, 2008, 05:50 PM
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ohhh sweeety!! I am so sorry it was a stressful appt I will be PRAyING LIKE CRAZY! that your baby is just perfectly fine and the u/s just made things look weird!! (HUGE HUGS) I am so sorry
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January 10th, 2008, 06:19 PM
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Danica, you're only 6 weeks along, right? My doctor won't even see me until I'm 10 weeks along. You are really early on. I really am praying for you that this is just too early and this is one of those bumps you'll look back on. Please keep us posted & I'll be sending every ounce of positive energy out to you that I can.
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January 10th, 2008, 06:21 PM
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I am sure everything will be just fine. Try not to worry too much. I know easier said than done. I hope the week flies by and you get only good news at the next apt.
You will be in my prayers 
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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January 10th, 2008, 06:22 PM
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I'm so sorry! You will be in my prayers! Please keep us updated!
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January 10th, 2008, 06:28 PM
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Danica,
you are still sooo early .....try to stay positive and know that we are all here for you hon!
~HUGS~
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January 10th, 2008, 06:53 PM
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I hope this is just a blip on you happy and healthy 9 months. Try not to stress yourself out too much about this, because it isn't good for you or your bean. (I know, easier said than done, right?) You are in my thoughts.
Grab on in there bean and GROW!!!!!
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January 10th, 2008, 06:56 PM
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Thanks ladies. I am trying to stay positive. Not cying anymore. I feel like everything will be okay but then again I thought the same with my last loss. Always an optimist.
Que Sera Sera
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January 10th, 2008, 07:43 PM
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Danica, I am sorry to hear that the appt. wasn't great BUT just like Courtney said, I didn't have the greatest first appt. and the dr. was pretty much "on the fence" about the viability.....and here I am now 13 weeks today.
No doubt it's going to be a tough week but please know we are all here for you and keeping you and your bean in T&P.
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January 10th, 2008, 07:59 PM
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Oh Danica, I am sorry you had a rough appointment!
I hope you get better news at your next appointment and this will have just been a little bump in your happy pregnancy road!
We're here for you...
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