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January 11th, 2008, 02:26 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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BFN. This sucks. I already told Dh I thought I was pregnant. 
I guess there's still some hope since AF isn't here yet, but I'm not feeling hopeful now.
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January 11th, 2008, 04:33 AM
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aww hun sorry to hear that!!
as you said your still in for a chance yet, i didnt get a good BFP till 12dpo, 11dpo was so faint i passed it off as an evap!
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January 11th, 2008, 04:38 AM
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That's right, don't give up yet if AF hasn't showed. There is still hope.
I do hope you get your BFP!!!
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January 11th, 2008, 07:06 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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It ain't over till the old witch shows.....and if she does we'll all beat her with her own broom 
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January 11th, 2008, 07:16 AM
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its not over tell the witch shows her ugly face
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January 11th, 2008, 08:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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bfn's bite - but it's not over 'till the witch shows. Keep hope alive - its still early!
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January 11th, 2008, 08:54 AM
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dont give up! you still have awhile to get that BFP! I really hope you do!!!!
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January 11th, 2008, 09:09 AM
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I agree with others - BFNs bite, but you still have hope! It might just be too early!
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January 11th, 2008, 10:32 AM
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BFNs SUCK the big one!!!!
Like the other ladies mentioned, it's not over until the witch shows! Hope she doesn't, so you get that  !
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January 11th, 2008, 11:57 AM
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I'm sorry. I hope it was just too early.
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January 11th, 2008, 12:32 PM
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Don't give up yet!
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January 11th, 2008, 12:37 PM
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Shannon....
I am sorry it was a BFN. I really hope it was just too early though. Looks like you have a long LP so you have a lot of time still to see a BFP before the witch finds your house 
Lots of that those tests show double lines!
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step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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January 11th, 2008, 12:41 PM
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Awww, honey, I'm sorry. I know how you feel. Sucks bad.
 I hope it's just too early.
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January 11th, 2008, 12:48 PM
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Shannon,
Don't give up hope! Just give it a few more days and then retest.
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January 11th, 2008, 02:16 PM
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My luteal phase is never longer than 12 days (unless I take progesterone). I'm either 10 dpo or 12 dpo depending on when I Oed. Not totally sure since some temps were screwy.
So AF is due either tomorrow or on Monday. If she doesn't show by Sunday, I'll probably test again.
It's so annoying because there was not even a trace of a line on that test and yet I don't feel like eating and it feels like my cervix has risen up higher than it was a couple of days ago.
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January 11th, 2008, 02:23 PM
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Looking at your chart it looks like you are only 10dpo.
Did CM dry up after you marked fertile CM or did you just forget to mark it? If it didn't dry up. I REALLY think you are 10dpo.
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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January 11th, 2008, 02:28 PM
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It's so hard to say. My CM has been very scanty in all my cycles after the miscarriage and also somewhat more sticky. So I was taking Robitussin to thin it out, which made what little I had watery.
I'm really very worried that the miscarriage screwed up my CM somehow, although I haven't found anything online about that happening to anyone else.
I thought I might be 12 dpo because I had what I thought were O cramps on CD 13. Who knows, I could be wrong though and CD 15 would be more consistent with when I normally O.
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January 11th, 2008, 04:02 PM
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Good luck.
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January 12th, 2008, 09:39 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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BFNs bite! I really hope it's just too early...I never got a BFP before 13dpo.
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