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January 12th, 2008, 05:52 PM
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I was cooking dinner, sulking and being plain miserable. I started thinking this isn't me and I don't like the way I am making myself feel. And then I thought to myself, F*ck it. I like being pregnant and if this pregnancy lasts 1 more day or 8 more months I am going to enjoy every minute of it. There is no way to prepare myself for a m/c so I'll just deal with that only if I need to. I have enjoyed my sore bbs more this last 30 minutes than I think I ever will. I will enjoy every minute of this pregnancy until the last minute.
Now, I am off to find that baby development chart and put it back in my siggie.
Que Sera Sera, Whatever will be will be.
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January 12th, 2008, 05:57 PM
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That's the spirit!
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January 12th, 2008, 06:05 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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d@mn girl, rock on! I am proud of you 
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January 12th, 2008, 06:15 PM
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Danica,
I just want to give you the biggest hug right now !!
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January 12th, 2008, 06:20 PM
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BFP Sept. '07
M/C October '07
BFP December '07
M/C January '08
Jan-Apr '08: Testing w/RE; unexplained inf.
May '08: IUI cycle #1-BFN
June '08: No TTC
July '08: No medical assistance; BFN
~readyat39~
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January 12th, 2008, 06:21 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies. I finally realized that I cannot live in the future, I won't live in the past, I will live in the present and presently I AM PREGNANT.
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January 12th, 2008, 06:26 PM
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You go girl! Thats the way to look at things, i hope everythign works out for you great!
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January 12th, 2008, 06:34 PM
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Super Mommy
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I think it is wonderful. What a great outlook you are having. 
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January 12th, 2008, 07:11 PM
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Allways Remembering our Angels
Angelina Marie 08-02-99, William Dewayne 02-08-01, Thomas Ray 07-30-02 and BabyBean 02-22-08 and BabyBean 03/02/2012
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January 12th, 2008, 07:15 PM
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Good for you!!! You are awesome, Danica!!!! We don't know what's gonna happen...so enjoy every second of it. I am so proud of you!
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Thanks BAM for my amazing siggy
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January 12th, 2008, 07:53 PM
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awww GOOD FOR YOU!! made me all teary, and I completely agree. Live in the now, and right now you are pregnant, enjoy every bit of it 
you and your baby are in my thoughts and prayers!!
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January 12th, 2008, 08:19 PM
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AMEN girlfriend!! I think you are doing exactly what you should. Embrace today, for we never know what tomorrow will bring!
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January 12th, 2008, 08:41 PM
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That is exactly the attitude that got me through my pregnancy with Erin. Of course, the difference is that every test showed every thing to be okay, so I think it must be harder for you. But it's such a wonderful thing! I hope that your pregnant days continue longer than you expect them to be.
You're a wonderful person.
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January 12th, 2008, 10:06 PM
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Danica, we are right here behind you!! That's an awesome change in perspective!
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January 12th, 2008, 11:03 PM
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Danica, your attitude is sooo awesome!!! I love how you realized you weren't being *yourself* and then you actually did something to change it!! You are an inspiration and I hope when I get my BFP I can remember this... 
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12 
 
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January 13th, 2008, 06:30 AM
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ditto to what all the ladies have been daying! and i got all teary too! thanks for inspiring us all!
~Em
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January 13th, 2008, 07:27 AM
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That is exactly right, you ARE PREGNANT, embrace it and enjoy it just as you said. I am proud of you!
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Our beautiful girls, Savannah, Delaney, and Avery
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January 13th, 2008, 07:48 AM
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That is a great & healthy attitude to have.
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January 13th, 2008, 08:39 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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What wonderful attitude you have! I wouldn't be surprised if this turned out to be a miracle for you...positive thinking is what it's all about
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January 13th, 2008, 08:54 AM
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I love it Danica.....live right now!
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