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January 13th, 2008, 04:15 AM
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I've been feeling really cramping lately, and I was talking to DH about when AF will come. He told me that even though the doctor told me we can start ttc again after one cycle, he wants to wait for two just to be really sure my body is ready. It's killing me to wait for one cycle, and the thought of waiting for two seems unbearable to me, but he insisted and told me not to try and convince him otherwise. He said losing the baby was hard, and he's really excited about me getting pregnant again. He doesn't want to wonder if we should've been more patient if something were to happen a second time.

How can I argue with that? It did make me cry though - losing the baby was hard and I want to have that joy that I felt about being pregnant back again. I can't wait to get back to taking a test (or three) a day! lol
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January 13th, 2008, 06:39 AM
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thats really awesome that your DH is so aware of the little things that women blaim themselves for when they lose a baby... And its great that he wants to do whats best for your body... and i know right now its going to feel like FOREVER... but in the long run, it wont make much difference..

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January 13th, 2008, 07:12 AM
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That is thoughtful of him. Shows that not only women but men too question everything that was done to try to get answers too. The 2 months will go by before you realize it
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