The date is set?

..Jessica.. · #1 January 14th, 2008, 07:02 PM

According to my topsy turvy husband .....

December 2008!

Which is 11 months away! Hopefully he won't make me wait that long! I know he wants things to be a certain way for us, and one thing I WANT is to be credit card debt free!!! I'm on that path right now, so hopefully I'll be done with it soon!!!

Melanie0507 · #2 January 14th, 2008, 07:06 PM

Yay Jessica! Atleast you have a date...something to shoot for. December will be here before we know it, but you can always hope for an *oopsie* before then B)

Danica · #3 January 14th, 2008, 07:11 PM

I am glad he set a date but I will secretly pray you get pregnant before then

LOL

*Bobbie* · #4 January 14th, 2008, 07:23 PM

Shaustin · #5 January 14th, 2008, 07:23 PM

Well, having something to look forward to is always good, and getting out of credit card debt is a great goal in the meantime!! I'm totally with the other girls though...and oopsie wouldn't be so bad!!

..Jessica.. · #6 January 14th, 2008, 09:43 PM

I'm really happy he's finally set something with me. Our wedding date was all over the place, and we ended up getting married almost 2 years earlier than expected! Our TTC date has been all over the place too. Keeps getting pushed back, which, like I mentioned I don't entirely mind, because I DO want my credit card debt (which is the only debt I have by the way!) paid off.

Also, I have this really heart renching feeling, that Dwayne might leave me if I get pregnant. And if he does, I might not be able to afford to care for a baby myself, which is another reason why I want my debt paid off -- so I'll be able to handle it for a little bit.

I'm nuts, aren't I!

Brittanie · #7 January 14th, 2008, 10:00 PM

Why would he leave you if you got pregnant? That would be so sad!

By that date, we should be TTC around the same time. of course, I'm starting to want to sooner!

..Jessica.. · #8 January 14th, 2008, 10:30 PM

I don't think he'd leave me, but, I keep having these feelings that he will. I couldn't tell him right away when I had the miscarriage, I didn't even tell him I was pregnant out of fear he would tell me to abort the baby. He ended up being the most caring and loving person, when I thought he wouldn't be.

I just need to stop these feelings and tell them to buggar off!! My husband loves me and he is NOT going to leave!!

Brittanie · #9 January 14th, 2008, 10:44 PM

Yes, I agree! He married you for a reason!

..Jessica.. · #10 January 14th, 2008, 10:47 PM

You know, I think you kind of knocked me back into reality Brittanie! Thank you!!!!

Brittanie · #11 January 15th, 2008, 01:28 AM

Oh good! Anytime!

#12 January 15th, 2008, 01:45 AM

Oh Jessica, I don't think he would leave you either. Seems like you both are doing so much to be together, he was amazing with you with your mc and he moved your wedding up by 2 years.......so this man is head over heals in love with Jessica!!!!

You both have good heads on your shoulders and it's good to have debt out of the way, but you'll be in debt for the rest of your lives with a child....lol

I've never felt that you have to be financially stable, just well enough to know how to budget to take care of baby. They cost more than any mortgage or credit card. We didn't clear out debt until just before moving here, had 2 car payments, mortgage and credit cards. Hated it all but needed 2 cars. We were only able to pay it all off because we sold our house and cars before moving. It is an amazing feeling at the moment but the bad part is that we have absolutely no credit here at all and we're not ready to open any credit lines now, just enjoying not having to make payments to anybody.

Who knows what he will decide next week, or the following week, or the week after that week.....lol funny because it's usually women who are the indecisive ones. I think it's cute in a way, if that makes any sense.

jademyst13 · #13 January 15th, 2008, 05:20 AM

I don't think he would leave you!
If we waited until we could afford it we probably would never have kids.

..Jessica.. · #14 January 15th, 2008, 02:39 PM

I'd love to be completely financially stable, but I think as well, that it's nearly impossible unless you have an amazing job, have a good amount in savings or win the lottery!

I just want my credit card debt paid off!!! So far, so good!!

*Judy* · #15 January 15th, 2008, 03:11 PM

Yah for a DATE!!! But like you said, your wedding date was all over, and you got married a couple years early, so maybe he will want to switch things up in a couple weeks and you will be TTC. As for him leaving you...get that thought out of your head. Dwayne loves you and wants to be with you, or you would have never gotten married in the first place.