[MaMaTuTu]

I am so sad you guys ! I called the surgeons office to find out what he had to say(about the Doc saying No to an HSG, and just to try and get pregnant again). Well he noted this "either way is fine, depends on the physician". WTFlip ?!! So now because he doesn't want to step on the other docs toes, he says I could just try? I'm so aggrivated , and confused I don't know what to do? We are moving soon so I'll be changing offices, but it's either find a doc who will do an HSG to see if my tubes are clear(which they could still miss some scar tissue on there), or just try and get pregnant and pray and beg with the lord that I don't have another ectopic?! I'm sorry to vent, I feel like I can't really even "actually" join you guys


Little Update

So I called my Midwife who is in the same office with "Dr. No". I was telling her that we're moving and wondering if she knew anyone where we are moving too. She asked if I was pg again, and I told her no. And that I just want to find someone who will do the HSG. She asked "what about the Dr.'s here?", So I had to explain everything, and she wasn't very happy. She said maybe it is a good thing that you move and get away from the doctor's here and their egos(I love her)! Then she also told me to send her pictures when the new baby comes(I was bawling after that). So she gave me some names, and I'll be calling to see what they think. So hopefully I can get some answers! And maybe be able to start TTC in April-ish. Wish me luck with talking to the new doctors/midwives!

[jademyst13]

I'm sorry the Dr.s won't work with you. I'm sure there is a Dr out there that would do it, but how you find out who I don't know. I mean they aren't paying for it so why should they care if you want it done?

I really hope you find a wonderful new Dr that will work with you!

[..Jessica..]

Your doctor should support your choice to get an HSG performed. I hope when you move, you find a doctor who IS supportive of you!!! I really, really hope you do!!

I wish you luck during this time, and hope you are able to find a doctor who really wants to help!!

Oh and you HAVE joined us on here, I'm not TTC right now either -- you don't see me leaving!

[Shaustin]

I'm sorry, I would be so frustrated if I were you. I think that an HSG is a good idea....I don't understand NOT doing one. I've had an ectopic, and previous to it rupturing I knew the next step would be having an HSG to see how my tubes were. But my tube ended up rupturing so I haven't needed an HSG thus far. I just feel bad they are giving you the run around. I still think you fit in around here...but I'm sorry your sad!

[heatherrose415]

I am sooo sorry Its not fair!! Dr's can be so ###### lazy and not listen to their patients needs!! I would find a new dr. who listens to you and who you feel comfortable with.

((HUGS)) please dont leave

[Madison.N.Hailey'sMom]

I agree, you should look for a new doctor. Mine did a HSG for me because they were looking for anything that was causing us to have a hard time conceiving. Hope you find a great doctor that will take good care of you. And if you want to keep trying to get pg that should be your choice and no doctor should have that say. Good luck with the move and your more then welcome to stay here even if your not activily TTC.

[*Bobbie*]

If it were me... I would push for the test. Sometimes even making an apt to see the dr again and asking for one could get it done. I know my doc has *forgotton* what he said at a previous apt. Maybe just asking again will help him reconsider?

About not being able to be a member of this board.... well THAT'S JUST SILLY! You can post here wether you are TTC or not...we aren't picky...and we love having more people to laugh with!

[steph&dan]

Ok, I am angry now. You need to inform the MD that you would like him to order an HSG. His decision is not the final answer. If he refuses, change MD's!! My OB tried to get me to do one for several months. It was only when I realized that if I needed to see an RE, that I would need it done. So I did it. Plus, why waste our time? I don't know how old you are, but man, I am almost 39. It's not like we have all the time in the world. And even if you are younger, it's not like you want to keep struggling when something else might be going on.

[Banned-AmyH1023]

I hope you find a new doctor who will listen to what you want and support you!!

[Brittanie]

I'm glad that you've got names of some potential good Dr's! Good luck this April honey!

[..Jessica..]

Oh, I'm SO happy to read that you've gotten somewhere with that office!!!!

That's awesome that she was able to give you some names of your new possible doctor!!!

April-ish sounds like a good time to begin TTC! You'll have a lil Valentine for next year!!!

[MaMaTuTu]

Oh, I'm SO happy to read that you've gotten somewhere with that office!!!!

That's awesome that she was able to give you some names of your new possible doctor!!!

April-ish sounds like a good time to begin TTC! You'll have a lil Valentine for next year!!! [/b]

Yeah, I know it isn't that far away, but it seems like a million years! As for a Vday baby, well I was due Vday 2007 with DD and she came on the 27th...of Feb!

[jademyst13]

I'm glad your mid-wife was supportive and gave you some names.