[keekopeeko]

Monday tuesday and wednesday, NO SEX aloud here at my house.. and then thurs fri and sat its GO time.. maybe even sunday if i O on Saterday, just to be sure..

We havent done this before.. normally we just do whatever, and then make sure to do it on like those 3 days in a row.. ive never told him we CANT do it for a certain amount of time before hand...

so I am hoping that my body co-operates with me and i O on friday or saterday, (14 or 15)...

i SO HATE the 2ww and i am not even in it yet.. BEFORE the 2ww you are like doing whatever you want.. drinking diet sodas..etc...and it goes quickly.. and you have control.. you plan out when your gonna DTD..etc..etc.. and you dont have to worry wether or not it worked yet... then after... you can think i might be pregnant the whole time.. and it takes FOREVER...

but i know we all feel like that.. i was just going off about it.

~Em

O/T ..PS.. My little sister got married to my husbands ex-girlfriends brother...and last night we had a birthday party for her, and our families got together.. and his ex-girlfriend has a little girl who is 7 months older than our DD.. and they had a great time together! and it actually went pretty good... i was really nervouse about it.. but i think if she was just my sisters sister-n-law, we could be pretty good friends.. but since shes my husbands ex.. i think we'll just keep it friendly instead of friends..

just wanted to share that here.. because i cant put that on my myspace because she would read it. hehe

[heatherrose415]

how exciting!! I really hope this month is your month!!

My trick to this last month was we DTD, and right after put a pillow under my hips, and I kept the pillow unde rme ALL night and did not go pee til morning, I made sure to go pee before we DTD! LOL> we did that 3 times in 4 days and now look!!!

I did get a UTI,but if you do do it that way, be sure to drink cranberry juice the next day so you can prevent one, LOL

[Brittanie]

Heather, I'm not surprised you got a UTI! I've ALWAYS gone to the bathroom after, and haven't ever had problems. I'm not sure the pillow actually does anything, but it makes you FEEL like you're doing something. lol.

Anyway, Em, GOOD LUCK and lots of to you! I really wish I were actually TTC too!

[ShannonMVT]

Good luck! I am waiting on my Ov Watch to give me a fertile reading. It's supposed to tell when you are 4 days before O, so I'm betting I'll get that reading maybe around Tues. What is sad is we both really wanted to DTD yesterday and Dh and I both restrained ourselves because we know we're going to be BDing a lot pretty soon. I was complaining about it a little and he insisted it would "make me want it more" and then I would be more likely to get pregnant. We'll see.

2WW makes me crazy and then on top of it all I eat so carefully, you know, for the baby that might or might not be there!

[Christal]

Hey Em. I should be Oing 4 days before you and this month I am also going to be doing less BDing untill it is time. I guess I will try the pillow thing to keep that stuff in there for a while. I hate the 2WW and the horrible let down when AF shows. So I am going to stay positive for now at least and say this is our month girl!!!

[..Jessica..]

Good luck Em!!! I hope this works for you!!!

[victorialv]

oooo....I like that plan Em!! I hate the 2WW too! It is excruciating! I even hate the 2WW before O....

I am a VERY impatient person I hate to admit, so I feel ya girlfriend!

Wow - that must have been a little akward at first (with the ex-girlfriend thing). I agree with you, probably better to just be friendly with her. I know a girl who got a little "SWF" on her ex-boyfriends wife...creepy!

Seriously though, that is nice that there are no hard/weird feelings between the two of you. That is usually not the case. Is she married or anything?