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January 22nd, 2008, 11:56 AM
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or is it your little secret ???
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January 22nd, 2008, 12:28 PM
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My hubby is in this just as much as I am so I always show him my chart and he always asks me what my temp is in the morning.

Make me feel good that he's into ttc equally.
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January 22nd, 2008, 12:38 PM
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No. I don't really do temps though, I had tried, but when I did I didn't tell him which made it hard. I was trying to take my temp and read it by cellphone light and quickly to stop the beeping noise of the thermometer hahaa

He doesn't even know that I have FF (the free acct) with my period and BD marked down. It's not that I'm hiding any of it from him I just haven't told him.
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January 22nd, 2008, 12:54 PM
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Yes mine knows. He doesn't ask me about it much though.
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January 22nd, 2008, 01:27 PM
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Dave knows but isn't really too involved with the whole charting thing.
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January 22nd, 2008, 01:28 PM
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Dwayne knows I keep track of my CD in my datebook, because he looks through it too!

He also knows about my MMC.com calendar, but I'm thinking about cancelling it, because it's starting to be REALLY wrong!
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January 22nd, 2008, 07:34 PM
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He did know when I was charting, I don't know how I would have hidden that from him. I did try to muffle the thermometer so it didn't wake him up when it beeped though.

I'm not doing it right now because it tends to make me a little too crazy and obsessive. Dh agrees with that and thinks it's better for me to just relax about it.

He has looked at my chart though and analyzed it with me.
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January 22nd, 2008, 07:55 PM
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Mike knows about me charting but doesnt get into it at all with me.
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January 22nd, 2008, 08:37 PM
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My hubby knows I chart, and he likes to over analyze it with me!!
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January 23rd, 2008, 08:23 AM
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I don't temp, I just keep track of af's on ff so I can figure out when I o. DH doesn't know - its not a secret though. He knows I know when it's time to BD, but doesn't know what methods I use to figure it out.
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January 23rd, 2008, 10:36 AM
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I chart, but I am not the most consistent charter. He knows that I do it. He has no clue as to what charting means. So, he never asks. He has his own internal "I think you should be fertile, or I think you should start AF" chart. It's pretty funny.
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January 23rd, 2008, 10:52 AM
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Tony knows I chart. I dont do temps though because I always forget. He is kinda interested in it. Asking me silly lil questions about it all the time.
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