[victorialv]

I don't want to get pregnant this month and I think I AM!!!! AHHHH!!!!!

I don't have a + HPT yet, but I just KNOW when it happens. During my normal cycles, I don't feel a thing (cramps-wise) after O until a couple days before AF is due. When I am pg, I get the craziest implantation cramps starting around 3-4 DPO along with a host of other symptoms (burping like crazy, heartburn, runny nose, etc). Well, I am feeling all those things and I am so scared!!!

Okay, as to why I am scared and not wanting it this month - I finally got a 2nd opinion on my Asherman's Syndrome diagnosis and they were almost certain I had it based on my symptoms. He was going to do an HSG after I got my period this month to give a definitive diagnosis, but I don't think that's gonna happen folks.

I am sure a lot of you already know this, but Ashermans is very uncommon, so I will explain a little. Getting pregnant with untreated Asherman's is a very bad idea because of the risks to mom and baby. Placenta previa is very common in births with this syndrome - even when it has been treated.

So, anyhow, I am having mixed feelings about all of this because my doctors are advising me differently (my local RE told us to "go for it" this month), AND because this was a "mistake" (BD 1X 4days prior to O and pulled out). So, it is almost like if this is it, then maybe this was God's will, and everything will be okay. I don't know, I am just scared and upset with myself, but maybe a little excited too? Is that possible??

I don't know exactly why I am telling you all of this, except maybe to get it off my chest, as I am not sharing this with anyone IRL. Thanks for listening ladies, if nothing else, it felt pretty darn good to tell my story...ya know?

[*Bobbie*]

I really believe things happen for a reason
Your RE did say to go for it.....sooooo
So bring on that BFP.... God only gives you what you can handle right?

[Brittanie]

I don't know what to say, except that I hope everything works out for the best!

[Melanie0507]

I am sorry you are having such mixed emotions. I do have to say, I truly, truly believe that things happen for a reason!!! If you are pregnant this month, it was obviously meant to be!

Soooo, when you testin'???

[heatherrose415]

I think things happen for a reason, and I have had complete placenta previa and have a healthy 2 yr old from it

[keekopeeko]

well....? when are ya gonna test!?

and i think you are right...if you are pregnant.. theres a very good reason for it. 1x 4 days before and pulled out! ... did you DTD after you Oed at some point that might have gotten you pregnant??

~Em

[jademyst13]

I can see why you would have such mixed emotions. I hope all works out for the best, whatever that is.

[Astrid]

Hey Victoria! I would have mixed emotions too but I am going to go w/ the whole "it happened for a reason" especially w/ the lack of BD. When will you test?

[Shaustin]

I can understand your apprehension, but I think if you are pregnant, then it will all work out!! Try not to stress about it (so much easier said than done, I know)!!

We all wanna know...when are you testing?

[Danica]

HEHE, isn't that how it always happens. Seriously though, I think that if you are you are MEANT TO BE with that amount of bd'ing you did and the pull out too LOL

When are you testing?

ps. I had partial plancenta previa with Naden and eventually it went away. Didn't have any bleeding or problems from it so if it does happen it could cause you no problems at all.

[victorialv]

Thanks a bunch ladies - I already feel much better after reading all your positive posts! I agree that if I am, then it certainly was meant to be.

Em - no, we have not DTD since that one time. We are camels.....

As far as testing is concerned, I think I am going to wait until 10DPO, which is Thursday - not too long now!

[..Jessica..]

I'm totally ditto-ing the "it happens for a reason"!!!

Good luck when you test on Thursday!!!!!

[luvmygirls]

I too believe that everything happens for a reason! If you are pg, I'm sure it will all work out. I had placenta previa with Marissa. I had no bleeding or complications from it. The only thing was that I had to be on pelvic rest, but I actually liked having an excuse not to DTD with DH b/c when I'm pg I NEVER feel like it! LOL! My previa moved at 37 weeks, and I had a normal vaginal birth. So even if you do have it, it's really not a big deal. I can't wait to see the results tomorrow!! But remember, 10DPO is still early (I always start testing then too, even tho I know it's too early lol) and if you really think you're pg (even if you get a BFN tomorrow) you probably are!

[keekopeeko]

im excited about tomorrows test!!

~Em

[Lv2Mommy]

Ooh - I'm excited to know what tomorrow's test will say... Everyone else has said it & I agree, if you do get that BFP this month then it's meant to be! Can't wait to hear the results, KUP!

[babyblue]

I believe totally that you probably are pregnant and are just really in tune with your body. I was the same day- having symptoms 3dpo and on and told DH I knew I was pregnant at 7dpo, even though my test didn't show up + until 10dpo.

I have to agree with everyone else too, if you got pregnant from that one BD session.. then wow- God works in mysterious ways! It just goes to show things are really out of our hands anyway, and I think you should embrace it. I had placenta previa with Mason and we monitored it and it ended up correcting itself early in the 3rd trimester.

Good luck!

[victorialv]

Oh, thanks ladies! Your stories of placentia previa's not being much of a factor have really inspired me to not be so scared!

Honestly, I am a little nervous to test tomorrow. I am really bad at taking pictures too - I have messed with every part of that dang camera and I just can't figure out how to make a clear close up.