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January 22nd, 2008, 09:13 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I think I've passed all the tissue tonight. It was almost the same exact timeframe as with Aspen. With Aspen, once I started bleeding it took 4 days to complete. I m/c at 7w4d. This baby we decided to name Skyla. Today I would be 7w5d and it took just over 3 days from start of bleeding. I am doing suprisingly well. I think I cried enough over the past week that I don't have any more tears left. Maybe when I go to bed tonight or some moment of silence when I least expect it I'll have another breakdown. I guess it is to be expected although I am trying to hold it together. I am trying to only think about the future, for faith and hope. I am not sure when we will TTC again but when it happens, it will happen. I know I won't wait too long though.
I just wanted to say again Thank You to everyone for your support. It means so much to me.
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January 22nd, 2008, 09:22 PM
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just me
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 Honey, I'm so sorry. Skyla is a beautiful name.
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January 22nd, 2008, 09:25 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh sweetie, I am so sorry.... 
I know what you mean about being out of tears. I will be thinking about you but I am glad you are doing okay.
Take Care.
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January 22nd, 2008, 09:43 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Canada
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Danica, I'm SO sorry!!!
Skyla is such a beautiful name!!!!
I'm sorry you went through this again!!! 
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January 22nd, 2008, 09:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Rochester, NY
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Danica,
I love the name you chose for your angel. 
I am sorry this happened to you again. I would have taken the loss from you if I could and have made it my own. I REALLY am sorry.
I love ya girl and my shoulder is ALWAYS available 
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step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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January 22nd, 2008, 10:06 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Aww Bobbie, now you made me cry.
Thanks everyone. You all are so sweet. I am glad you like the name too. We actually thought of it before we even knew we were going to m/c.
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January 23rd, 2008, 12:03 AM
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Veteran
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I am sooo sorry.
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January 23rd, 2008, 04:39 AM
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.... you are so strong... even when you do fall apart you are still strong, because there are not many people who would go through what you have and continue to hope for the future...
skyla is and always will be loved....
Were you able to bury her next to asher? or at least put something in remembrance of her next to his grave??
i know if i were to m/c again ever i would want to come back there ( we are moving soon ) and put something next to Baby Es grave... so they could be together
~Em
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January 23rd, 2008, 06:23 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Danica, I am so sorry for your loss. Skyla is a beautiful name. I wish you the best of luck in the future, and I hope you feel better soon.
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January 23rd, 2008, 07:07 AM
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Super Mommy
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Danica,
I am so sorry for your loss, but I'm glad the wait is over for you. Skyla is such a beautiful name and she was welcomed in Heaven with open arms. You have been such a trooper through all of this and I admire your strength. It takes a strong women to be a Mom, but it takes an even stronger one to be a Mother of Angels.
and 's,
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January 23rd, 2008, 07:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies 
Em, Travis and I spoke about burying Skyla last night. Unfortunately the ground is frozen and covered in snow so for now I will put the remains in a nice box and wait until spring to bury the box. Skyla will go next to Aspen. It really is a beautiful and serene place, at the top of what I call woodpecker rock in our backyard. In regard to moving, I already told Travis that if we ever moved we are digging up both the glass boxes to take with us.
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January 23rd, 2008, 07:10 AM
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January 23rd, 2008, 07:50 AM
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Skyla is a beautiful name. I'm sorry this happened, but I'm glad the wait is over.
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January 23rd, 2008, 08:30 AM
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Skyla is a gorgeous name.
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January 23rd, 2008, 08:35 AM
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aww hun im really sorry to hear that, i cant believe how together you sound about everything!
take care of yourself!
xx
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January 23rd, 2008, 09:07 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Danica,
I am so truly sorry that this has happened. Please take care of yourself and know that we are all here for you ~~hugs~~
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January 23rd, 2008, 09:10 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am in tears, I am so sorry Danica Its just not fair!!!
Skyla is a beautiful name, and so precious that you get to bury her next to Aspen!! That is beautiful!!
((HUGS))
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January 23rd, 2008, 09:38 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: the lower 48
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Danica, you are such an amazing woman. I feel like I need to take a page out of your book. I wish this had not happened again & that we could all just give you one giant group hug and let you cry until you were all cried out.
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January 23rd, 2008, 10:47 AM
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Super Mommy
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Awww Danica I am sorry you had to go through this again and in such a short period of time. I love the name you gave your angel its beautiful. I am glad that is was over fast for you. Get some rest and take care of yourself. BIG HUGE HUGS.
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January 23rd, 2008, 05:12 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Danica,
I am so sorry!!! I just can't put it into words. I am so sory you are going through this. I LOVE the name Skyla. It is trully beautiful!!!
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