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January 25th, 2008, 06:41 AM
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CD 14

welp... according to my OPKs i probably Oed yesterday.... But according to my temps i havent Oed yet... But im thinking maybe i just Oed early this morning ..like 1 am or something.. and my temps just didnt go up yet.. Im pretty sure they will be up tomorrow... Which means that we DTD the last couple of nights.. and tonight we will too.. so i know that i am entering the 2 ww... if not yesterday.. then today...

Im really doing my best to feel positive about this... but even though i know that we "caught" the egg... (because i know we'll BD tonight also) ... i feel like i want this to much and that it wont happen.. plus i think i dont like getting my hopes up and getting nothing.. So i am going ot try to just take this one day at a time.. and i am going to TRY to wait until i am 11 or 12 DPO to test... just because BFNs are sooooo depressing...

we've been getting a lot of BFPs lately ... maybe it will rub off.

I think ill go make myself a half caf cup of coffee now..

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CD 15

Well my temps went up today... which means FF will probaly give my CHs on day 14...which is my normal day to O...

But i honestly think I Oed sometime during the night between 13-14... because yesterday morning (im a temp aholic) my normal day time temps went up..before i O they are like 98.2..3 etc.. and yesterday they were 98.8 ..99.1... etc... like they are after i O.. But anyways.. we did NOT end up BDing yesterday... OR this morning like i was thinking might happen.. so phooey on a sleepy head husband.. but, Really, if this is our month its going to happen.... its not like we missed my whole fertile period... so im trying very hard not to let that stress me out, or to get angry at my DH...

Okay... well im going to go watch some saturday morning cartoons with my #1 ..Layla..

~Em


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Today, CD 16

Okay... so this morning when i took my temp i was like that is such an odd temperature! but when i plugged it in it gave my crosshairs anyways... on day TWELVE!!!... i totally think i Oed on day 13... NOT 12.. and our intercourse pattern would work better if i had Oed on CD 13 too.. so to tell you the truth im kinda bummed about it...

are you still fertile the day after you O???

i dunno... im just not feeling very confident about this month... BUT that does mean that this cycle will be
short... ill start on feb 5th or 6th....

My body used to be SO regular..always Oed on CD 14... and now TWELVE!!!! EERRRRRR!!! i guess if FF is right then i am 4 dpo.. thats exciting.. right! haha

~Em

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CD 17

Soooooo my temp this morning changed my CHs from CD 12 to CD14....which is totally what i was expecting... I still think I actually Oed on CD 13 during the night... So that does improve the chances with our intercourse pattern... but i am still bummed we didnt actually do anything on CD 14...

but i am glad to know my body isnt totally screwed up.. Oing late on CD 13 or early on 14 is much more normal for me that CD 12....

but Now i am only 3dpo. ...... longer to wait and drive myself crazy! im already trying to decide how many HPTs i should go buy from dollar tree .. hehe

~Em
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January 25th, 2008, 08:32 AM
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January 25th, 2008, 08:34 AM
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Good luck to you Em! I know it must be rough to be disappointed, but you're time will come soon, I'm sure of it! I bet this is your month!
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January 25th, 2008, 08:40 AM
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I hope this is your month sweety!!! lots of baby dust your way!
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January 25th, 2008, 09:39 AM
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I really hope you get a BFP this month, Em!!!!

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January 25th, 2008, 10:18 AM
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Good luck Em! I know it is hard to get your hopes up because it is so disappointing to see those BFNs.

Usually my Opks are positive the day I O, but last month it looks like they were positive 2 days before I Oed, so I guess you never know.

I was feeling pretty positive about my cycle when I had a decent amount of EWCM a few days ago but it seems like now that I'm closer to O, I'm actually having LESS cm. What's up with that? Ugh.
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January 25th, 2008, 09:45 PM
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Hey sweetie! I know it can be frustrating to try so hard, time everything perfectly and then not have it work out. UGH!!! I really just want to hit the fast forward button of my life and skip all this (including labor!), and just stop where I am holding my dear baby in my arms. I know it is going to happen though, and it will for you too, so it is just a matter of time for us....

Loads and loads of ((Baby Dust)) to you!!

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January 27th, 2008, 06:43 AM
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January 27th, 2008, 07:40 AM
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Sorry about your CH's on the *wrong day*...but sometimes I think that you know your body than FF, so don't give up hope yet! I really hope this is your month Em!!!
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January 27th, 2008, 09:22 AM
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Oh Em, that really sucks!!!

I'm on MMC.com and I'm really starting to think that they don't have a clue as to what is accurate! They said I'm suppose to O on February 5th, well, I O'd this weekend, and I stop my BCP on February 5th!!!!

I hope that your crosshairs are in the wrong spot, and you caught the eggie!!!!

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January 27th, 2008, 09:58 AM
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Sorry Em. I know temps are not always absolutely right though. Do you get any O signs that might help you pinpoint when you Oed? I'm still not convinced that I Oed on CD 15 last month even though that is what my temps look like. I think it was CD 13.

I'm using the OvWatch which is supposed to tell you 4 days before you O. According to it, I am Oing today. So we'll see how accurate it endsup being. If it actually works, it is pretty nifty because then you can plan out ahead of time when you want to BD.
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January 27th, 2008, 10:56 AM
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Looking at your chart I don't think you O'd on cd12. I think it was more likely on cd13 or even 14, but not 12. Good news is you have both days covered! Good luck girl. I hope you caught that eggie.

ETA: And yes you can be fertile after you O because some women will O out of both ovaries, so even if you O'd on cd12 you might have O'd again from the other side on cd13.
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January 27th, 2008, 01:45 PM
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Em, I totally think you o'd on CD14. FF gave you crosshairs, but they are dashed. Plus, I think you have to look at the chart with some human eyes. Your temp soared on on CD15. So, I am going with CD14.
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January 27th, 2008, 01:51 PM
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oh, plus you had a pos OPK on cd13. I really think FF is wrong now. Not to worry, you were right!
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January 27th, 2008, 11:48 PM
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good luck and ff has been known to be wrong b4
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January 28th, 2008, 04:48 AM
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January 28th, 2008, 10:04 AM
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I'm glad that your body seems to be acting more normal! Good luck honey!
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January 28th, 2008, 10:30 AM
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I hope you caught the eggie this month!!! Good luck when you test!!!
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January 28th, 2008, 02:51 PM
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I dont trmp for that reason I dont want to be anymore confused than I already am. LOL glad you figured it out though. As far as how many tests to buy. I recomend getting more than 5 because if you start peeing on them on 3dpo they just wont last trust me. So then you have to go back to the dollar tree now in 2 days to buy more. Well that my opionion anyway. I am hopeing so bad that we both get BFP this month. I hate waiting to find out.

I dont trmp for that reason I dont want to be anymore confused than I already am. LOL glad you figured it out though. As far as how many tests to buy. I recomend getting more than 5 because if you start peeing on them on 3dpo they just wont last trust me. So then you have to go back to the dollar tree now in 2 days to buy more. Well that my opionion anyway. I am hopeing so bad that we both get BFP this month. I hate waiting to find out.
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