Okay, so DH really wanted to wait for two cycles before we started TTC even though the doc said one was good. He really hates condoms, though, so we decided to BD unprotected and just avoid what should be my fertile time... Of course, I'm not a charter so I just go with what's typical for me. I'm pretty textbook when it comes to cycles - I'm your 28-30 day girl with ovulation around CD 14.
So here's the oops - I think trying to abstain got the better of us & we got a little carried away yesterday afternoon

on CD13 of all days! DUH! I think we might be okay b/c I was really having all the signs of ovulating a few days earlier - pain, slight cramping & EWCM, but who knows since I don't chart. Oh well, can't change anything now so I guess we'll just have to wait & see what happens.