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January 31st, 2008, 09:35 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Colorado
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Please rate me before I scream. I hate the rating system that JM has now with the stars. I would rather have no stars at all rather than anything less than 5. *Someone* gave me a rating that brought my stars down to 4 at that really annoys me. It annoys me because I am only active here and Naden's playroom (mostly here) so it makes me think that maybe I said something to someone here that made them mad? I think I am only supportive of everyone and never judgmental so I would like to put out there that if you have a problem with me you can PM me.
I think I'll sign off now before I get worked up. JM needs to take care of this STUPID rating system. I'd like to say I don't care but I do.
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January 31st, 2008, 09:42 PM
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
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Awww, I'm sorry honey.  It wasn't me. I just went on there and gave you a 5 star rating...but...it didn't change it.  That's the reason I don't rate people. I think you're right, why did they put in on there at all? I think it's just a way for people to be vindictive and petty.
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January 31st, 2008, 10:00 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: santa monica, ca
Posts: 375
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there is a rating system? LOL! I will give you 5 stars... just tell me how. tried to rate myself.
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February 1st, 2008, 06:43 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Oklahoma City
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I didn't even know there was a rating system... but that is CRAP if anyone gave you anything less than a perfect score! You are one of the most positive, upbeat people on this board- even with everything you have gone thru yourself the past few weeks.
Please don't let it get you down. Let me know how to rate you and I will give you five stars all the way!!
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February 1st, 2008, 06:46 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2006
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I didn't even know there was a rating system. Why on earth would they do that? I think it's a stupid idea and should be done away with. And I don't know who would ever rate you less than perfect Danica, you are AWESOME!
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February 1st, 2008, 06:54 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: MN
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I didn't know there was a rating system either!!! I am so sorry hun I'd give you a 5 too!!!
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February 1st, 2008, 07:00 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
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A rating system, huh?!? I had no idea, but I'm TOTALLY headed your way to give you 5 BIG FAT STARS!! I don't know why anyone around here would rate you any less than 5 stars, you are always so supportive!!
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February 1st, 2008, 07:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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done.  check it now!  for what it's worth, I think a rating system is dumb too. All it takes is one negative person wanting to be mean.
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February 1st, 2008, 07:33 AM
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Location: Syracuse, NY
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I just went and gave you 5 stars!!! Is there any way to see who has rated you?? I don't have ratings so I guess no one cares for me either way. Don't let it get you down, I think you sound very nice and to
he!! with whomever didn't like your comment.
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February 1st, 2008, 07:51 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Colorado
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Thanks ladies. You made me feel better.  The star system is bull and JM really needs to remove it. When I first joined it didn't exist (or I probably wouldn't have joined). If someone doesn't have the nads to approach a person they have an issue with then they need to grow some. This isn't high school. UGH. Anyway, I try to surround myself with only positive things in life and think only about the positive but I think that the star system is a way of sending negative energy my and I don't want it. Actually I don't use the star rating system unless I see someone doesn't have 5 stars and then I give them 5 even if I don't know them. Anyway, I rated you all for doing that because you all have 5 rock stars in my book
Ally, there is no way to see who rated you what but since to rate you have to go to the person's profile you can kind of narrow down the list if you check often enough because you can see who visited your profile when. I pretty much narrowed down the list to who I think could have done it but I'd rather not assume and would rather just send them love and light.
Just fyi, I am not going to be on much this weekend because my mom will fly into town today but didnt' want you all to think it was because I was mad or anything
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February 1st, 2008, 09:01 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: South Carolina
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Wow - I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one who had no idea there was a rating system... I don't blame you - I think it'd bug me too if someone gave me a negative rating. Anyhoo, I gave you 5 stars...
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February 1st, 2008, 09:12 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Ditto, the rating system is dumb!
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February 1st, 2008, 09:17 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: California
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How mean!! i dont know how anyone could give you a bad rating!! thats insane!!!
I gave you 5 stars
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February 1st, 2008, 09:22 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: California
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I'm in the boat with everyone else...I didn't realize there was a rating system...but I am headed over to see if I can figure out how to rate you a 5 Danica. I am sorry people are dumb and petty.
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February 1st, 2008, 10:03 AM
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I agree it's just plain dumb....
I will rate you five stars right now
I can't belive someone would do that. GRRRR
This did come up on the hosts board once and they said the rating thing came with the software....or something like that. So I am pretty sure they didn't WANT this feature...but are stuck with it?
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February 1st, 2008, 10:07 AM
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Matthew's Mommy
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Location: Virginia
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Thats so stupid!! Im with everyone else, i didnt know there was a rating system, how do i go to vote on you???
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February 1st, 2008, 10:13 AM
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
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Yeah, the rating system appeared when they redid the profiles. I went and explored and stumbled upon it. But I try not to rate people on principle, even if I like them. (You go visit their profile and it says "rate me" for the girls who are wondering)
It reminds me of Dr. Seuss's The Sneetches, you know the creatures where some had stars on their bellies and some didn't.
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February 1st, 2008, 10:27 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: the lower 48
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Please rate me before I scream. I hate the rating system that JM has now with the stars. I would rather have no stars at all rather than anything less than 5. *Someone* gave me a rating that brought my stars down to 4 at that really annoys me. It annoys me because I am only active here and Naden's playroom (mostly here) so it makes me think that maybe I said something to someone here that made them mad? I think I am only supportive of everyone and never judgmental so I would like to put out there that if you have a problem with me you can PM me.
I think I'll sign off now before I get worked up. JM needs to take care of this STUPID rating system. I'd like to say I don't care but I do.[/b]
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wow, I didn't even know there was a rating system!
edit: ok I went to rank you and I clicked on the stars and it said "your ranking has been updated" but I"d just clicked randomly on the stars! ACKKK! so I reclicked at the very end at the most stars I could give!! I hope I didn't just lower your ranking again!!
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February 1st, 2008, 11:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Virginia
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I knew there was one, but didn't think it counted for much. I did go give you 5 stars!
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February 1st, 2008, 01:24 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Lynnwood, WA
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I peeked in because I felt a little better this morning... I agree with the other ladies, but I just also wanted to point out that one click secures a "vote" and it could easily, very easily in fact, have been done on accident. Hope you feel better...
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