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February 4th, 2008, 08:38 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Okay so my temps went way down today, when they should have gone up or at least stayed the same if i was to have any hope that i was pregnant this month...
so i will not be holding a baby in my arms before the date of my loss...and for all i know i wont even be pregnant then!
so i know ive said this before..i dont want a november or december baby... so ive decided that the next two months i will look into getting some vitamon E for both of us to start taking along with the stuff we are already taking... ill look for some red clover tea.. or something... and ill eat lots of baby carrots... i will NOT use OPKs i will NOT count days.. i will NOT tell my DH what days we have to BD... i will NOT stress about getting pregnant the next two months...
i havent decided if ill temp or not.. i like temping its fun.. and i like seeing how my body works...
then when May rolls around i will start really TRYING again.. OPKs.. im gonna try the robitussin trick.. im gonna do everything i can to make it happen... that would put our kids 3 years apart.. and lots of people to do that right! not weird....
im just really bummed today... I HATE AND DESPISE TTC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i guess a break will be good for me... my SIL keeps telling me ill get pregnant on our "break" just when i DONT want to get pregnant... i guess if it happens ill be thrilled but really angry that it couldnt happen just ONE month earlier...
and dont tell me its not over until AF shows.... My temps are going down.. its finished...
~Em
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February 4th, 2008, 09:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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awe, I'm sorry! But it sounds like you have a plan, so I wish you all the luck in the world for a Jan 09 baby!!
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February 4th, 2008, 10:04 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Hey Em...so sorry you are down in the dumps. I know how difficult this process is & how frustrating it is. Hang in there. It will hopefully happen sooner than later!
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February 4th, 2008, 10:42 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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HUGS
I am sorry Em. You sound so sad today. I think maybe a short break will be rejuvinating. We all need one every once in a while. I'll probably be right here with you. I mean, next month is the first month we'll be trying again and if it doesn't happen which it most likely won't I don't think we'll be trying in March because I am trying to avoid a December baby too (of course either way I would be thrilled if it happened). Before, my dd would have been in the beginnning of the month but with the m/c messing up my cycle I will not be due around 25th or 26th. ERRR
I really hope that the short break rejuvinates you and when you come back you get a BFP the first month you try.
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February 4th, 2008, 10:48 AM
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Veteran
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I'm sorry you are having such a rough day. I hope things start looking up for you soon!
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February 4th, 2008, 11:03 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Em !
I am so sorry you are feeling so down...and nope, I am not going to say....it's not over til......you know.... 
I do agree with Danica, maybe a break is what you need !
I hope you start to feel better hon !!
~big hugs~
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February 4th, 2008, 11:11 AM
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I hope a break is just what you need. It must feel like a relief to know next month you can just sit back and relax. Hope you are feeling better about it all really soon....
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February 4th, 2008, 11:16 AM
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Sorry your having such a hard time TTC but I agree that a break might help lots. I really hope that you pg the first month back on the band wagon.
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February 4th, 2008, 11:46 AM
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Super Mommy
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 I cant hear you. You have to be pregnant this month  We are supposed to be pregnant together. I totally do understand you wanting a break though. I was going to do the same thing next month if it didnt happen this month. I hate that darn thermometer maybe it is broken.
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February 4th, 2008, 12:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry you are having a rough day and that things are not going likie you wanted.
I never really wanted a holiday baby either, but I just don't want to wait two more months to start TTC again 
I am glad that you have at least come up with a good plan
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February 4th, 2008, 01:05 PM
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hahah! thanks for the smile christal!
im bummed too... but ill totally be stalking you through this pregnancy...  living through you ..hehe
Thanks for all the good wishes girls! and ill still be around.. posting comments etc... but im just gonna try not to focus on or even want to get pregnant for a couple months here...
~Em
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February 4th, 2008, 02:00 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Im sorry I hope you get prego first try next go around!!
and 3 yrs apart is soooooooooooo nice! my boys are 3 yrs apart and sooooooo close, but the good thing was my 3 yr old was out of diapers before kaiden was born!! LOL. 3 yrs is wonderful!
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February 4th, 2008, 04:55 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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l'm sorry your having a rough day and wish ya all the best.
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February 4th, 2008, 07:19 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Like your SIL said, watch, you'll get preggers in the next two months. 
I'm sorry you even had to decide to take a break!!!!
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February 4th, 2008, 11:06 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry Em. I was hoping this was your month.
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