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February 4th, 2008, 09:42 AM
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I was going to leave all the TTC boards since i'm having a really hard time right now with people finding out they are pregnant and such. Since my friend just found out and like made me feel worse by the way she told me i haven't been myself lately. I don't even want to talk to her anymore, anyway this is the only TTC board i'm going to stay on because you ladies understand what i'm going through and how i feel. Love ya ladies!
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February 4th, 2008, 09:49 AM
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Awe, what a brat saying that to you! I'm glad you're not leaving us though!
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February 4th, 2008, 09:58 AM
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Stick around, my friend. Sorry that your friend was hurtful. Though I am sure she didn't mean to be, some people just don't seem to think before speaking!
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February 4th, 2008, 10:00 AM
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she wasn't meaning to be, i mean i went off on her and then she started crying and such. I feel bad i made her cry but at the same time i dont'
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February 4th, 2008, 11:15 AM
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I am so glad you are staying. We are here to support you through every step of this. I am sorry your friend said what she said, I think people that haven't experienced a loss just don't know what to say and sometimes they just want things to go back to normal so they don't have to feel awkward. What they don't understand is that we aren't going to be the usual chipper selves. We are mourning the loss of a child and there is no set limit on grieving. HUGS
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February 4th, 2008, 11:18 AM
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Sorry that your friend said some hurtfull things. Sometimes people just dont know what to say. Glad to hear that your going to stick around with us crazy girls. We would miss you if you left us.
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February 4th, 2008, 12:24 PM
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Sorry your friend wasnt very sensitive to your feelings, Im glad your staying tho!!
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February 4th, 2008, 12:28 PM
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I'm glad you are sticking around
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February 4th, 2008, 01:46 PM
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the big thing is she has had a loss before so i don;t know why she wouldn't think of my feelings thats oneofhe reason i was so pissed
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February 4th, 2008, 02:15 PM
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Wow, than I have no excuse for your friend. She should think before she speaks. Sorry
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February 4th, 2008, 03:49 PM
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Sorry about your friends comments - that would've set me off too. I'm glad you're planning on sticking around!
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February 4th, 2008, 04:05 PM
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l'm glad you are going to stick around and sorry about your friends comments.
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February 4th, 2008, 07:07 PM
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Glad you're not leaving us!! We'd miss you!!
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February 4th, 2008, 07:39 PM
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Oh Denise, I'm sorry your friend was so mean!!!!

Glad to hear you're sticking around!!
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