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February 5th, 2008, 08:53 AM
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What are the odds of having a successful pregnancy if you get pregnant before your first period post m/c?
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February 5th, 2008, 08:54 AM
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I'm not sure...but are you telling us because there is a chance Danica? OOOHHH I hope so!!!
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February 5th, 2008, 08:59 AM
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Honestly.... I have heard or more people who carry babies to term than m/c.
Soooo.... are you just asking... or is it maybe..... a possibility?
<fingers crossed>
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February 5th, 2008, 08:59 AM
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HAHA, you catch on to everything Judy
I don't think I am but we dtd on Friday and Sunday even though we weren't planning to and I had EWCM yesterday... I actually didn't think I'd ovulate the first month post m/c just cause I don't think I did last time. Makes me wonder. I guess I am a little worried about the what ifs but I didn't want to post that because I think everyone posts this worry when they are waiting for their first AF and I don't want to be like a broken record...
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February 5th, 2008, 09:07 AM
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Girl...EVERYTHING is crossed for you, fingers, legs, toes, arms and even eyes, which make it really hard to type (LOL)...that would be the greatest thing ever!!!!
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February 5th, 2008, 09:10 AM
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well i AM one of those babies...
My mom had had 3 miscarriages..and then before her period i showed up and stuck....
so who knows!!!
~Em
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February 5th, 2008, 09:11 AM
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LOL
I think my doc would kill me though...
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February 5th, 2008, 09:54 AM
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HEHE that would be awesome. From what I have heard the main reason they dont want you to get pregnant before AF is because of dating purposes. Makes it harder on them to know how far along you are.
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February 5th, 2008, 09:59 AM
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I think that would be awesome!!!
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February 5th, 2008, 10:01 AM
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I have a friend thats about 20weeks pg and this baby was consieved the first cycle after her miscarriage. Her and baby are both fine but I'm not sure of the odds for it.
I'm scared for the same reason though. DH and I DTD on Sunday and all day yesterday and today I have had EWCM.
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February 5th, 2008, 10:42 AM
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I read after I had my m/c that after you m/c you are VERY fertile. I can't remember where I read this, but I did. I have my fingers crossed for you....Oh, that would be terrific! Here's some baby dust...
Let us know.
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February 5th, 2008, 12:15 PM
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Ooooohhhhh!!!!!!!! I hope you are!!!! 
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February 5th, 2008, 12:26 PM
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I hope you are too...that would be awesome
I have read anecdotally on pg websites about people saying they are more fertile after a m/c. I haven't read any scientific evidence to back this up though. I don't even think I ovulated the month after mine...
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February 5th, 2008, 01:20 PM
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I've also heard you are more fertile. A friend of mine had TWINS the first cycle afterwards. How's that sound Danica? So, when can you test????
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February 5th, 2008, 01:24 PM
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Ohhhhh, geesh, this is exciting!! I'll be waiting on pins and needles of course!!
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February 5th, 2008, 01:26 PM
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Oh my goodness girls  I was asking the odds of having a viable pregnancy and now you've got me thinking how darn fertile I could be. AHHHHH I don't want to be in the 2ww. It takes too long and I have mixed feelings about it if for some miracle I did conceive... LOL
I'm not planning on testing unless I get some symptoms but I'll definately keep everyone posted  Thanks for the kind words.
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February 5th, 2008, 03:37 PM
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 you had to know we would all get excited and hopeful!
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February 5th, 2008, 06:37 PM
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Oooh Danica! Now you've got me excited for you! KUP
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