[Frangipani]

that the m/c baby/babies were your only chance? I have been kind of thinking this the longer this TTC journey stretches out. We were off birth control for YEARS before I got pg last year. I mean like 5-6 years and never once had an "oops".

We got pg last year but then I mc'd. I think I worry in the deeper parts of my heart that was my chance and I blew it.

[..Jessica..]

You know, sometimes I look at it like that too. I was with DH 2 FULL months before we got pregnant. I was with my ex-b/f's for months on end, had several "oppsies" and didn't get pregnant once. I was taking the pill during my pregnancy, I'm pretty sure I know the exact date I conceived as well, and I haven't had an "oops" since!

[Frangipani]

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[..Jessica..]

It bugs me too. It makes me think that I can't get pregnant again, like, EVER! But I'm *hoping* that it's not true.

My sister has had 2 miscarriages, and can't get a period without taking BCP. She's thinking about Clomid, but her fiance needs to be on board, and he totally isn't. I don't want her having his kids anyway! He's a LOSER. She even went as far to ask me to be a surrogate if she can't have kids.