I promised not to, but I cant stop feeling sad

susanaa · #1 February 10th, 2008, 11:24 PM

Dont get me wrong please.

I just heard about a girl that miscarried with me and now she is pregnant
I feel stuck

and hopeless. I know I shouldnt say this as we havent tried, yet, but I feel as if I am left behind.

I feel so happy for her, but sad for me. I feel sorry about everything that happened to me.

Just wanted to let things out my chest as I am here sitting at work, feeling like crying.

Anyone feels sad TTC after a loss?

keekopeeko · #2 February 11th, 2008, 05:37 AM

i think everyone here has those sorts of days..its fine to vent!! and i think its okay to feel sad too...

i HATED TTC... i even hated it before i ever had my miscarriage...its so stressfull and the thing you want most in the world seems like the thing you just cant seem to ever reach...

.... and then yes... after a loss it just adds an extra amount of saddness to it... so you're not alone...

~Em

Danica · #3 February 11th, 2008, 06:14 AM

Your not alone. It's normal to feel sad. The whole situation is really, really unfair. I wish you weren't at work so you could let it out and have a good cry. big HUGS

babybluegirl · #4 February 11th, 2008, 07:06 AM

dont feel bad, im ok at this moment but at times when i go into the forum where i used to be a part of befor i mc i get all sad and would think its not fair why but its just part of the grieving proccess because your not wishing anything bad just sad that you are no longer preggers im ok now i have accepted that GOD wanted it this way and hopefully soon we can ttc...its ok to cry you need to get out your emotions believe me after you will feel better i cried this weekend and on sunday i was accepting of what occured dont get me wrong its still sad but its better i hope you feel better soon

mom 2 haley & tyler · #5 February 11th, 2008, 07:10 AM

I think we all understand. TTC is always hard. I believe it's especially hard after a loss. It is an awful thing to happen. We all understand and are here for you though. These ladies are amazing. Good luck when the time is right.

jademyst13 · #6 February 11th, 2008, 07:32 AM

We all understand. Everyone has times like that.

greenchild · #7 February 11th, 2008, 07:47 AM

I've had times like that. Another thing going on right now is that right after my most recent surgery/loss, my cousin's wife went into premature labor (she was expecting a c-section in March) and delivered a tiny but healthy little girl, who is doing wonderfully. I'm happy for them, but why couldn't I have that???