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February 20th, 2008, 10:36 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I've been drinking green tea each night in hopes of boosting my CM production. Well tonight I actually had a little EWCM and it's only CD 10! I hope this keeps up!
Then when it hit midnight, I checked my OvWatch and it is giving me a fertile day 1 reading! That means I should ovulate on CD 15! Just like last month, actually.
I'm trying to figure out which days we will BD this time. Hmm...what do you all think? Keep in mind, more than two days in a row probably will not fly.
I was thinking about tomorrow (4 days before O), Saturday (2 days before O) and then on Monday (day of O, BD in the morning).
I don't know if that is enough though. WDYT?
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February 20th, 2008, 10:40 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I always aim for the every other day. It sounds like you have a good plan to me
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February 21st, 2008, 04:51 AM
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I agree with Jenn, but might also suggest also bding the day after O, just to cover your bases.
More than 2 days in a row won't fly? Wow. My DH would love every day if he could...multiple times a day sometimes. I'm glad he's busy with school, that knocks it down to 2-3 times a week.
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February 21st, 2008, 05:01 AM
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do what you feel is right.. becaue if you dont then youll just stress about it and thats no good...
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February 21st, 2008, 05:56 AM
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How funny that I just read this post today... I signed on all excited b/c for the first time I have noticeable EWCM and I'm on CD10 also. I guess I've just never noticed it before, but since we started trying last September this is the first time I've actually seen it! I don't know when I'll 'o', but I figured we'll BD today and every other day until sometime next week.
Who knows - maybe we'll get to be DDC buddies  Lots of dust to us both
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February 21st, 2008, 05:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Yeah, if you BD Monday morning that maybe if you BD Tuesday night it will be sort of like 2 days apart  Or just wait till Weds, just to be safe
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February 21st, 2008, 08:32 AM
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I think you have a good plan set up. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!!!!
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February 21st, 2008, 09:40 AM
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Your plan sounds great. I would BD the day after you O too just in case though. Good luck girly!!!!!
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February 21st, 2008, 10:34 AM
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That would be great! I saw on the other thread that we would be due the same day if we both got pregnant! I needed a new cycle buddy this month since before Em and I were basically the same but now she's pregnant.
I'm not sure about the day after O. I thought I read that was kind of pointless, because the eggie is already gone?
I would kind of like to do 2 days before O, 1 day before O and day of O, but that is 3 days in a row. Plus every other day might be better anyway, that is how we got pg the first time, we were doing it every other day. I'll probably just talk to Dh and see what he thinks. He's said that he'd rather know which days he is needed and that makes it nicer than having to hope that he will be willing if I just spring it on him.
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February 21st, 2008, 10:48 AM
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I made DH come home for lunch today so we could DTD... He was laughing at me b/c I was so excited about the EWCM! I've read every other day is good, but at this point I'm ready for everyday. Of course, I thought maybe I read somewhere that that can actually decrease the # of spermies... Who knows - I just hope we both catch an egg!
We can obsess through the 2ww together!
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February 21st, 2008, 01:50 PM
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Veteran
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Chris....Ha ha, that's how I got pg with my first son. I called my husband and had him drive an hour home for lunch and then I put my bum in the air for 20 min afterwards
Shannon congrats on your cm. All the stuff you're doing must be working. I say just do it, don't think about it just do it  Good luck
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February 21st, 2008, 06:13 PM
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Shannon.... sounds like you are on your way to a nice BFP this month!!!! That is a GREAT plan
I think the day after O would probably just stress you out...and you are right... they say it it just kind of a *maybe* day. It depends on when the egg pops. LOL
So I say stick to your plan... it's a great one
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February 21st, 2008, 06:23 PM
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I think we're going to go with every other day starting tonight. Whoohoo!
It's weird though, I had several big gobs of ewcm last night (I even thought of taking a picture  ) and today I've had a little watery and a little ewcm. Seems like it would be more, since I had more yesterday. But I'm sure I don't need to worry about it because I am still 4 days away from ovulation, so it's probably great to be getting any!
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February 21st, 2008, 06:34 PM
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stick to ur plan sounds good to me good luck i hope and pray u are holding that beautiful bfp in ur hands in no time.
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