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March 3rd, 2008, 08:09 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I called today to cancel the u/s and apt for Wed. I just figured it was pointless. I am m/c no doubt about that. Well instead of letting me cancel...they are making me go in today at 1:15. UGH I really was really hoping to just be done with all this. I don't want anything stuck in me now while I am in so much pain. I don't want another D&C. Three in a year would be way too much. I just wanted a break from all the medical crap right now. I know they are just gonna take a look, say everything looks okay and call if the bleeding is too heavy or the cramping gets worse. See I could save myself the $25 co-pay!  Maybe they will at least give me that pill to get this moving?
Send me easy apt. vibes if you can find any. 
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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March 3rd, 2008, 08:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 I hope it's quick and easy
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March 3rd, 2008, 08:27 AM
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just me
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Oh honey, I'm sorry. You know, you could just not show up. They can't MAKE you go.
Easy appointment vibes to you.
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March 3rd, 2008, 08:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Now they called back and asked me to come in at 1 and not eat or drink anything. GRRR I have a feeling I know where this is going. UGH
I guess they are concerned that I am cramping so bad with very little bleeding.
Now I am going to take a shower, shave my legs  and get dressed.
<big sigh>
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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March 3rd, 2008, 08:42 AM
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just me
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I guess that makes sense, but I wouldn't want another D&C. I agree 3 in a year wouldn't be that great.
Hopefully that's not where it goes.
This sucks Bobbie.
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March 3rd, 2008, 09:02 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Indpls
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Good luck at your appt today.
Maybe they will waive the $25 co-pay 
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March 3rd, 2008, 09:06 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Rochester, NY
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yeah right!  Waive the co-pay 
No if I have to do the D&C now it's around $300 after my insurance. I hate DR bills. I think they are sooooo not fair! 
The bleeding has picked up...so have the cramps...so I am off to blow dry my hair and get going.
Thanks for being there for me. I really don't know what I would do without you girls 
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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March 3rd, 2008, 09:23 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Lots of easy appt vibes... This totally sucks! I hope the appt goes well and you get to pass on the D&C this time.
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March 3rd, 2008, 09:29 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Bobbie, I'm so sorry you're going through this again!!!!! 
I wish I could take your pain away!!!!
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March 3rd, 2008, 09:55 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Illinois ( originally From New Jersey:)
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well this all sucks...
I have no idea but......ok if the dr. "recommends" a D & C.....does that mean you have to have it?????? you could refuse right??
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March 3rd, 2008, 10:11 AM
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just me
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Quote:
well this all sucks...
I have no idea but......ok if the dr. "recommends" a D & C.....does that mean you have to have it?????? you could refuse right??[/b]
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You can refuse any procedure Dee. They can't force you to do anything.
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March 3rd, 2008, 10:11 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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I hope you appt, goes the best it can!
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March 3rd, 2008, 10:14 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Im so sorry Bobbie You can refuse the D&C, it sounds like things are moving along like they should and I agree, 3 in a year would be alot!
Maybe you could use this appt as an opportunity to talk about tests to find out whats going on, why you have had 3 m/c now.
((HUGE HUGS TO YOU))
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March 3rd, 2008, 10:18 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Ugh, I'm really sorry this is happening again, Bobbie.
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March 3rd, 2008, 11:02 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I hope you appointment is as painless as possible. I know exactly how you feel. I NEVER want to have my blood drawn again. I called today for BCP and they said they'd want to check my levels in a week before prescribing it. I told them my levels were at 46 last week and I am bleeding VERY heavily now. What more do they want from me. Baby is gone, heart is gone. I swear they are trying to suck out my spirit with all the blood draws *sigh* ######s.
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March 3rd, 2008, 11:09 AM
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Okay I am back. Good news. No D&C! (for now).
They did the u/s which showed nothing different from before. Well except a small cyst on my left ovary with fluid around it? They still can't know for sure if the pregnancy is in the tube or not. He ordered more bloodwork. He said if the number is 200 or under we won't do anything. He said over 200 and the tube could burst if it is in the tube. We will go from there once the labs are back. He took me out of work until Thursday. I have my next apt. on Wednesday to see how it looks. I also got the firm lecture.... If ANYTHING feels funny to give them a call or head to the ER. He was a little concerned that the pain is mainly on my left.
So there is my update. Wait and see I guess.
I will be in chat for sure tonight. I will bring the cadburry eggs and wine. Hope you all will try to make it too! I could use some laughs tonight 
I wonder if I should buy a HPT to pee on to see if the line is lighter? HMMM I may just have to.
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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March 3rd, 2008, 11:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am glad you didn't have to have the D & C......and hopefully you won't have too.....
and I realy hope you won't have to make a trip to the ER !!!
We'll make you smile tonight I am sure......
hm...I think I will bring....*darn* Mick took the bag of Snickers to work....all I have are sugar free Turtles! bleh !
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March 3rd, 2008, 04:55 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Okay I am back. Good news. No D&C! (for now).
They did the u/s which showed nothing different from before. Well except a small cyst on my left ovary with fluid around it? They still can't know for sure if the pregnancy is in the tube or not. He ordered more bloodwork. He said if the number is 200 or under we won't do anything. He said over 200 and the tube could burst if it is in the tube. We will go from there once the labs are back. He took me out of work until Thursday. I have my next apt. on Wednesday to see how it looks. I also got the firm lecture.... If ANYTHING feels funny to give them a call or head to the ER. He was a little concerned that the pain is mainly on my left.
So there is my update. Wait and see I guess.
I will be in chat for sure tonight. I will bring the cadburry eggs and wine. Hope you all will try to make it too! I could use some laughs tonight
I wonder if I should buy a HPT to pee on to see if the line is lighter? HMMM I may just have to.[/b]
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Was the fluid around your cyst, or in your abdomin by your ovary? I'll be praying that it's not an ectopic!
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Tube bean missing since 12/1/07
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March 3rd, 2008, 06:54 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Ohio
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I am glad that the doctor didn't recommend a D&C, but I wish he had a definite answer about the ectopic.
I hope your numbers are really low and you can put all this behind you! g/l
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12 
 
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