[*Bobbie*]

I mean really it seems like a waste of time. I know I am m/c. I know my numbers are dropping.... test is lighter. Why can't I just call for my beta and only go if it's over 200?

I don't want another u/s. I don't want another stupid internal exam. I just want to be done with this m/c and be able to move on.

<sigh>

Okay I feel better.

[Brittanie]

I have no advice for you sweetie.

[*Bobbie*]

That's okay I just feel like complaining I guess.

[dee68]

I don't blame you one bit !

they are making you go in just to get your numbers?????

[Melanie0507]

I don't know if you want me to play devil's advocate, Bobbie, but allow me to for just a minute.

You don't have to go in...they won't show up at your house and drag you in. Can you just call them and ask them to just send you for bloodwork? I know you tried that and they insisted you come in, but can you insist that you don't want to?!?

K, I am done. I hope I didn't offend you. On the other hand, it might benefit you to go in and talk to your doctor about figuring out causes for your m/c's.

[dee68]

yeah, can't you just tell them you are just not up to it ?????????

I'd take a "mental health day"
get some m & m's and stay on the couch

[greenchild]

Bobbie, I so hear you!!! Hope it's over soon.

[*Bobbie*]

Oh it would take a heck of a lot more than that to offend me

I might try and just call tomorrow and if the numbers are low have the nurse ask the doc if we can just set up a follow up instead. If they are over 200 I know he is gonna want to see me. I am okay with that because it's for a good reason... he was worried if it was over 200 that if it's in the tube it could rupture. If it's low I see no reason why I have to go in. I guess I will play it by ear.

I am more annoyed that I have to be up and dressed by 10:00am tomorrow when all I want to do is be miserable. This cramping has got to go. I wish the bleeding would pick up so I know the cramping is working. KWIM?

I must be the weirdest person I know...wishing for more blood

Thanks for letting me complain. It is good therapy

[dee68]

Oh it would take a heck of a lot more than that to offend me

I might try and just call tomorrow and if the numbers are low have the nurse ask the doc if we can just set up a follow up instead. If they are over 200 I know he is gonna want to see me. I am okay with that because it's for a good reason... he was worried if it was over 200 that if it's in the tube it could rupture. If it's low I see no reason why I have to go in. I guess I will play it by ear.

I am more annoyed that I have to be up and dressed by 10:00am tomorrow when all I want to do is be miserable. This cramping has got to go. I wish the bleeding would pick up so I know the cramping is working. KWIM?

I must be the weirdest person I know...wishing for more blood

Thanks for letting me complain. It is good therapy [/b]

I know what you mean Bobbie....
with my m/c, I spotted before I even got my bfp in August.....I knew something was wrong....and that freaking hit & miss spotting lasted until Oct. 26 when it "finally" happened....in a very strange way, it is a relief....a heartbreaking one ....but it had started...and would be over....
so yeah, I know EXACTLY what you mean !

[MrsPoe]

I say you don't go. You just lay around and talk to us on JM and then go in when you feel like it.

Whatever you decide to do will be best!

You are not that weird at all. I remember my blighted ovum and just wanted all of the waiting to be over, some kind of closure. I also just wanted to be miserable and not have to put on a fake smile for anyone. I will be thinking of you tomorrow morning.

[heatherrose415]

Im sorry

I would do like you said, call and see what your numbers are at, if they are under 200, let them know youw ould like to cancel this appt and make a follow up appt.


((HUGS))