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March 6th, 2008, 09:10 AM
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So, I was a very patient girl and waited for af to show up on march 4th like she was supposed to. She didn't. So then came march 5th, and it's like 7:00pm at night so i was thinkin... wow, she STILL hasn't come, so now I'm starting to get a little excited. I start noticing some symptoms I had last time, so I'm sure now that this is it!! Well, I finally built up the strength to take a test, and as soon as a wiped afterward (sorry tmi) There she was.... I was like, "YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING" perfect timing right? SO not only did she show in full ouchie force, I also got the joy of seeing another beautiful BFN!
Talk about a crappy night. SO... I ended up crying so hard that I threw up like 4 or 5 times, then finally falling asleep. I was so mad at myself for allowing myself to believe that this was it so early on. It makes it so much harder to deal with a BFN when you actually think you might be pg.
I'm just so tired of waiting, and feeling like I am being left behind, as I watch all my friends/family move forward with their pregnancies.
Anyways, If you have read this entire thing, thanks, lol. Sorry for the rant
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March 6th, 2008, 09:14 AM
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No need to apologize we understand. I'm sorry AF showed up.
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March 6th, 2008, 09:21 AM
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I have had that happen to me before and it makes me so ANGRY that she waits until right after I test to show her ugly face...I am sorry Melissa!
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March 6th, 2008, 09:26 AM
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I've had this same thing happen to me back in Dec. I took a test at 13 DPO and it was a BFN and then about an hour later AF showed. This happened right before christmas and I was so depressed. I'm really sorry that AF showed.
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March 6th, 2008, 09:44 AM
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Awwww Melissa!! I'm sorry hun! I know that exact feeling, 4 cycles ago that happened to me, AF late, test and then wipe and BAM she's there. It's soooo mean and not nice. Double whammies. I'm sorry hun!!! Hang in there!! Don't worry about ranting and venting, it's fine and normal!! Hope these hugs help comfort ya!
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March 6th, 2008, 10:11 AM
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Melissa,

I think we've ALL gone through that!!!! I know I have!!! Thinking I'm pregnant because AF isn't here and as soon as I test, she shows up a few hours later!! Talk about frustrating!!!

I'm sorry it happened to you this month sweetie!!!

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March 6th, 2008, 10:14 AM
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I have so done this before too! Although, today I tested in HOPES that it would make her show up, since I'm obviously not pregnant. She was due on the 4th for me too.
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March 6th, 2008, 10:16 AM
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I'm so sorry Melissa!!! Ditto to what Jessica said. Vent all you want, that's what we're here for!!
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March 6th, 2008, 02:37 PM
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Melissa, I am so sorry!

That is just MEAN for it to happen that way... nothing worse than getting your hopes up. I was better this month with getting AF b/c I knew I wasn't pregnant. Last month I could have sworn I was, so it stung a lot worse.

Hugs to you and I am hoping we get our BFPs together next month!
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