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March 8th, 2008, 06:56 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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http://www.justmommies.com/boards/in...owtopic=502770
That is the link to my loss journal. I thought this week would be harder than it is. Maybe because I am still dealing with my most recent m/c it just hasn't sunk in? Maybe I have just learned how to deal with my losses? Whatever it is I feel like I am in a much better place emotionally than I ever thought I would be a year later. I look back at that journal from time to time and feel like I have grown *old* in a way. Like back then I was young and stupid and thought m/c only happened to other people...not me. Now a year later I feel like I know way more about miscarriage than I ever wanted to know.
Maybe by this time next year I can actually hold a baby in March? <sigh>
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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March 8th, 2008, 07:08 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I hope so Bobbie. You deserve to hold a baby of your own.
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March 8th, 2008, 07:24 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 bobbie u will be holding ur own baby soon
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Allways Remembering our Angels
Angelina Marie 08-02-99, William Dewayne 02-08-01, Thomas Ray 07-30-02 and BabyBean 02-22-08 and BabyBean 03/02/2012
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March 8th, 2008, 07:46 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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You will definately be holding a baby of your own very soon!!!
((HUGS))
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March 8th, 2008, 08:19 PM
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Super Mommy
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March 8th, 2008, 08:54 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I know you will...We love you Bobbie!!!
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March 8th, 2008, 09:36 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Awwww Bobbie, we are all here for you. I just read your journal, and it really broke my heart. im in tears for you. I just want to see a positive out come for you and Dave. You both deserve a baby so much. What ever you need ALL of us are here for you. No matter what.
Again sweetie im sorry to hear that your having a hard time. ))))HUGS((((
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March 8th, 2008, 09:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Bobbie,
I feel like such an ***** that I did not realize it is coming up on a year already......First Angelversaries are so hard, I do hope you get through the day without too much pain....
I just read your Journal....~HUGS~ I can't even put into words how I am feeling right now & it wouldn't matter anyway....Your pain and heartache comes across in your writing, but as always, your strength and optimism shines through also.
I truly hope you are blessed soon with a happy, healthy baby....you deserve it so much!!!
Love ya girlfriend !
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March 9th, 2008, 01:58 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I hope you'll have that precious baby soon, Bobbie!
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March 9th, 2008, 07:36 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Bobbie.
I know you will be holding baby in your arms soon. Keep up your positive attitude...you are an awesome, strong woman!
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12 
 
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March 9th, 2008, 10:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I read your journal too  you are so strong woman!! even going through your miscarriage, you were so strong! ((HUGS))
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March 9th, 2008, 10:56 AM
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March 9th, 2008, 11:49 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I agree with the other ladies, you are a very strong perosn, and I really admire that about you Bobbie. I just have a feeling that your time is coming very soon. HUGS!!
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March 9th, 2008, 01:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Bobbbie l'm sorry to hear that you are having a hard time,
and l'm praying that you will soon be holding a baby in your arms that
you's so deserve!!
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March 9th, 2008, 04:37 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry that tomorrow is your Angelversary.
Words can't even express that, and I won't pretend to understand what and how you're feeling.
I wish nobody had to "reach" these days! I truly and dearly, hope and pray, that you and Dave are holding your child, this time next year. You two truly deserve that.
Love ya Bobbie!!!!
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March 10th, 2008, 09:58 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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oh hun, i'm sorry this keeps happening! you will get a healthy baby i can just feel it
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March 10th, 2008, 10:01 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Oh Bobbie! I'm so sorry for all your losses. I hope that this time next year you are holding a little baby in your arms. You are in my T&P
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March 11th, 2008, 05:33 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Bobbie, it's so surreal to look back on things like this. I recently found some things I had written not long after my brother passed away. I was definitely in a different place in my life. It was so raw at the time.
Although they never truly go away, time really does help heal the wounds. I believe that. I think we ALL have to believe that, because sometimes knowing that it won't hurt as bad eventually is all that gets us thru hard times when they are happening.
I wish you the best and can't wait for you to finally get your heart's desire! 
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March 11th, 2008, 08:03 AM
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Veteran
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Location: Ohio
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Bobbie,
I just read your journal It's crazy how right our instincts are. You are such a strong woman!!!! And I'm soo sorry for your losses. My heart breaks for you. But it sounds like you have a wonderful husband for support. I'm praying that you do get that little baby that you deserve soon!!!! Lots of 
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