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March 9th, 2008, 08:41 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Hi girls...
well i just noticed that ive started to spot... its just light brown right now... and still mixed with CM....
and i know everyone says spotting is normal, blah blah... and no i have NOT DTD today.. and i have NOT done anything with extreme activity... Im 8 weeks.. this is not implantation spotting left over... i dont know what it is...
I checked my cervix and its about the same as its been since i got pregnant... it never got high and hard like its supposed to.. its stayed pretty low and soft, but closed... and tonight it seems like "maybe" its a bit more open.. i cant really tell..
but i just know that when i had my last miscarriage i spotted one day, and the next it was gone.. and then that afternoon it started again... and went on and off the rest of that day and then the next it was pretty steady...
so i am gonna be watching it.. as you all know.. But i am also going to call my OBG tomorrow morning and see if they can fit me in.... im TERRIFIED... and i think if it happens again im not trying again either... My DH and i have always wanted to adopt some day, so i might go right to that... but anyways, thats not positive thinking!!! and thats what i need to be doing.... so just pray for me...im really really really scared... and shook up.. and sad.. and to top it off my DH is out of town for work until like 5 am....
~Em
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Well i went in this morning... and theres good news and bad news...
there's still a strong heart beat.. he didnt tell me what it was.. he said "pretty fast" ... i hate this Dr.!
He didnt measure the baby either to make sure it was growing right... but from what i could see its bigger than last week..so i think its okay...i even asked him to ..he said he would do that "next time"....
bad news, i have blood built up. From what i dont know! he wouldnt even tell me the whys or hows of it.. he just said it wasnt my fault... and he's calling it a threatened miscarriage...
so he said i will most likely bleed more because there is blood there...but to cross my fingers that i dont bleed a LOT more.. and to call him again if i start to get really crampy and passing clots...
i am on light duty... and pelvic rest.... i have another appointment with him next week..
so im pretty upset... im trying to be optimistic... and i could probably go on and on about this...
but just PLEASE pray for me....
~Em
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March 9th, 2008, 08:47 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh Em,
I'm so sorry hun!!! I'm praying that the spotting stops and EBaby is staying put!!!!
I hope your OB can get you in tomorrow!!!
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March 9th, 2008, 08:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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OMG, Em, NO!! This can not be happening! Oh sweetie, you are in my T&P's! Please let us know how things go tomorrow.
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March 9th, 2008, 08:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. I really hope this is that normal bleeding and nothing else. I hope your Dr will let you come in and get checked right away. You and Ebaby will be in my T&Ps
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March 9th, 2008, 08:57 PM
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Em,
I am sorry that you are dealing with this....~hugs~
when I was around 8 weeks, my dr.'s nurse said I may spot because of the umbilical cord attaching to the placenta......sometimes they just "fuse" with no spotting, sometimes not..
maybe that is what is going on ......will be sending positive thoughts your way !
~HUGS~
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March 9th, 2008, 11:12 PM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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praying!!
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March 10th, 2008, 02:47 AM
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Mega Super Mom2Morgan
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oh my luv, i will pray really hard for you, that exactly how i was, my cervix was soft and low the whole time, i was told thats normal though, have you been taking anything like baby asprin or progesterone?? im going to hold thumbs for you, i know how you feel for once i can say taht!!! i know how you feel hun, its so hard but stay pos and on your back!!!! dont move unless you need to pee!! keep that baby in there!!!!
HUGS!!!
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March 10th, 2008, 04:54 AM
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Oh sweetie!! ((((HUGS)))) I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!!!! Please keep us posted!!!
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March 10th, 2008, 05:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry you are going through this Em! I hope you can get into your OB today and that it is nothing.
You are in my T&Ps!!!
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March 10th, 2008, 05:28 AM
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March 10th, 2008, 05:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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ugh, I hate to hear that!
I know you are worried and scared. But do remember, spotting is pretty normal. I only say that b/c with DS I spotted all the time.. especially the first trimester. And wouldn't this be around the time your second period is due? You could be spotting from that!
Keep your chin up.. and let us know what the doctor says. 
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March 10th, 2008, 06:03 AM
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Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry to Em. We will be praying for you and baby. I hope it's nothing. How are you symptoms? Still good I hope. Hope you get into the Dr. today. Good Luck.
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March 10th, 2008, 06:03 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Em, I teared up when I saw your post! I know how scared you must be. I really hope you can get in to see your doc asap, and it really is just that normal spotting that everyone talks about. I will be thinking of you
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March 10th, 2008, 06:21 AM
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So sorry Em..... I know the "this is normal" part is driving you crazy, but stay positive!
Please let us know what the OB says!! I will say a prayer for you!!
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March 10th, 2008, 07:14 AM
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Awww Em I'm sooo sorry that you are having to deal with this. I really hope you are able to get in to see your OB today and everything is fine. KUP
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March 10th, 2008, 07:15 AM
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Em, i hope its nothing!! I will be praying for you, hoping that its all normal..
Hugs sweetie!
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March 10th, 2008, 08:37 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Em!!!
I will praying for you. Please update us as soon as you can. T&P are with you!!!
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March 10th, 2008, 08:38 AM
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Oh Em, honey I too really hope it is nothing. I also hope you can get in to see your ob today and that will put you to some ease. Prayers are headed your way.
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March 10th, 2008, 08:38 AM
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Super Mommy
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I'm sorry that is happening - so scary especially after you've had a loss. I hope you are able to get some reassurance from your dr today.
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March 10th, 2008, 08:56 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'll be praying for you, Em.... I hope everything turns out just fine
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