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March 14th, 2008, 12:14 PM
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March 14th, 2008, 12:20 PM
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I'm sorry you're spotting. Can you call your doctor and get a beta just to see what is going on and for peace of mind?
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March 14th, 2008, 12:24 PM
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id call them and let them know that u had gotten a few lines on some test and now are spotting and really scared of the outcome....
good luck hope u get the answer u need
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March 14th, 2008, 12:26 PM
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I'm sorry!!  Good luck!! 
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March 14th, 2008, 01:28 PM
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Oh no!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'd call the dr, too. Just for your peace of mind. KUP. I'll be thinking of you!
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March 14th, 2008, 01:30 PM
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I agree with everyone else - give your doctor a call just to ease your mind. I really hope they were just evaps & it's nothing to worry about.
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March 14th, 2008, 01:34 PM
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Is it brown spotting? I got spotting the night of my BFP and the whole next day but then it went away. My doctor said it was IB. Hope thats all it is for you. Are you going to test in the am?
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March 14th, 2008, 02:02 PM
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Well it started out as red stringy mixed with kind of EWCM, now it's like a more redish-brownish-orange...ish...  . I don't have a doc yet because we just moved, but I called the midwive's office that I had planned on seeing, and they suggested to go to urgent care. I'm going to wait and test again in the a.m. to see if these 2 were evaps. If I am still spotting and tomorrow's test is a +, then we will go in. If it is a + and I stop spotting then I have an appointment on Tuesday with the midwife. I really don't know what is going on! I just tried to find my cervix, and I think I felt my eyeballs! I could have swore that I ovulated on my left side too....*sigh* 
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March 14th, 2008, 02:29 PM
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Oh honey, I hope it's just IB. I hope the bleeding stops and you get a beautiful BFP tomorrow. I will be praying for you. Put your feet up and take it easy!!!
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March 14th, 2008, 03:19 PM
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aww l'm sorry, it could be just IB,l'll be thinking of you!!
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March 14th, 2008, 03:24 PM
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March 14th, 2008, 06:38 PM
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Oh honey, keep calm! I hope it's better than you think!
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March 14th, 2008, 07:49 PM
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Tatiana,
I am sending lots of sticky dust your way......
There is no way those tests were evaps.....and this baby is just getting comfy for the next 36 weeks 
I will be praying for you and your bean... but I really think everything will be just fine..... so I will send calming vibes too!
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March 14th, 2008, 08:50 PM
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You will be in my T&Ps tonight Tatiana!
I hope the spotting goes away and you get a nice, dark BFP in the morning!
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March 15th, 2008, 06:49 AM
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I hope all goes well for you!!! C'mon 
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March 15th, 2008, 06:47 PM
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Thanks for the T&Ps! Update at top
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March 16th, 2008, 08:15 AM
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I am sorry you got a BFN!!
If it was a chemical I think you are okay to try the next cycle. If it was ectopic and the HPT's are now coming up neg, you should be fine to TTC again as long as the bleeding stops. If it continues or if you have abnormal pain, then I'd go in. Ectopics can (although they never did for me  ) resolve on their own if the baby is tiny enough when it passed. But if you have another ectopic after this, then definitely go in and get your tubes checked, KWIM?
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March 16th, 2008, 10:42 AM
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I would think you should be ok to continue on TTC right away
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March 16th, 2008, 01:50 PM
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I'm sorry Tatiana!
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I'm hoping they were evaps!!
. So I guess either it was a chemical pregnancy, or those two lines were evaps....or it is an ectopic and tests are being stupid? My temp did go down, but not back to were it usually is. Soooo....not sure really what's going? If it was a chemical pg, is it ok to try again the next cycle?
