Hi Eleysia and
First off, I am so sorry for your loss, but I am glad you made your way over here. This is a great group of women who are very supportive and helpful!
As far as counting your cycle, yes, the first day of bleeding is usually counted at CD1, but after a m/c, really anything goes. I hope it doesn't, but it may take a cycle or two for everything to get back to *normal* as far as cycle timing goes.
I hope your stay here is short! Please feel free to let us know if you need anything!