[victorialv]

Okay, this is ridiculous! We have waited 5 months now, and now he decides to not feel up to BD?? I just don't get it, I think something else is going on and he just doesn't want to tell me. He is ALWAYS up for it (with the exception of like 3 times ever!). Plus, my body is acting wacky. I had acupuncture y-day and I think it threw off my ovulation. I went into the appt with EWCM, and now - nothing! Dry as a bone..... Plus, my OPK's are not getting any darker. I just don't know what is going on. I thought acupuncture would help things along?!

I am just really frustrated and needed to vent a little.....thanks for letting me get this out! I feel better already!

[keekopeeko]

yeh... i bet theres something else going on.... maybe he's really nervouse about trying again.
As for the accupuncture.. i have no idea
~Em

[..Jessica..]

I agree with Em, he might be nervous about trying again. I hope you and him are able to talk about it!!

Good luck Victoria!

[Melanie0507]

Hey Victoria

Have you tried talking to dh and see if he will tell you what's going on?? Sometimes I think our losses affect dh just as much as it does us, they just handle it a different way.

As far as the acupuncture...I really don't know. I know a couple people IRL that have done acupuncture to help with fertility stuff, but I'm not really familiar with it. Maybe your body started to gear up to O and then didn't. Maybe the EWCM will show again in a day or two and you will get a nice, strong eggie!

g/l Victoria! KUP

[victorialv]

Hi ladies, thank you for your responses. I have been driving myself crazy over this delyaed ovulation thing. I would really like to just kick my ovaries in the a** if you know what I mean.....

My EWCM did not return today. Here is hoping it is back tomorrow...

Talked to DH about everything, and as silly as it sounds, he said he needs me to hit him over the head sometimes. I guess my BD remark 3 days ago did not sink in....men!

So, the good thing is that DH is still in the game with me, but my body has decided to take a break...

We'll see how the next few days play out.

[steph&dam]

acupuncture shouldn't interfere with ovulation. I go every week, and feel that it has really helped me. Good luck, hope ewcm returns quickly!!

[mommy jenn]

hey im glad hes back in the game, i know my fiance was really scared to try this time because he didnt want things to go wrong again, i can imagine i gave him a hard time crying and stuff. i had a crying session on sunday too and he assured me that we would get our bfp sooon

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I'm not sure about the accupuncture. I'm glad dh is still in the game...lol. Good luck to you!

[Eleysia]

LOL Go figure. Men are a little slow. If it isn't naked or bright and shiney they don't seem to get it sometimes. I'm glad that he realized you mean business :smile. Good luck hun. KUP.