[crys28]

Hi there,

My husband and I originally got pregnant 2 months after trying and then miscarried in our 10 week to find out the baby only made it to 5 wks. I had a D&C after the miscarriage and waited 2 months (as requested by my doctor) to begin trying again. Since then, we have been trying now for 4 months and have had no success.

I can't help but wonder why it's taking so long and if there is a chance i can't conceive again.

Has anyone had this problem or knows why it's taking so long this time around?

Thanks in advance,
Crys28

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I'm so sorry for your loss! I had my m/c at 7 weeks. I've been trying for almost 7 months now. I don't know why it takes so long. I have a 3 yr old daughter. I got pg with her right after I stopped birth control. I stopped bc when we decided to try again and got pg 2 months later, then had the m/c. I know it's hard ttcal. I wish I had answers for you, but I don't have any for myself either. Good luck to you!

[mommy jenn]

im so sorry for your loss and the frustration you feeling must be horrible.. have you tried temping? or opks??? those might help you find out if you have really been ovulating... maybe you just havent been ovulating....

[Madison.N.Hailey'sMom]

I am so sorry that its taking so long and for your loss. I know what its like. This time I had been trying since Feb 07 and just got my BFP in march after a year of trying. This is my 3rd pg with 2 angels. I really hope it happens for you soon.

[crys28]

Good point, maybe i haven't been ovulating. But my symptoms seem to be there.

How do you do temping and what is opks?

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I don't know alot about temping, 'cause I haven't done it yet. I know you buy a basal thermometer. You have to temp every morning before you get out of bed and record it. opks are ovulation predictor kit. It's kind of like a home pregnancy test, but it tells you when you ovulate. You can read about them on the internet. Hope some of that helps