Well Ladies its been 10 months since my son died, when will the pain start to dwindle off ... I miss my son soo much this has been the hardest year of my life... I have reported the mistake that was made and am waiting to hear back, since I live in Canada I dont think there is anything that can be done anyways and yeah bringing some light to the mistakes that happen here in the hospitals is great but its not bringing back my boy... I have some what I thought were good friends and have been realizing they dont understand and dont care to ask me how I am or why I am craznky and not wanting to go out with them and have fun.. I am trying to del with this the best way I can.. Its hard I wake up sometimes and wish it was all a dream... its not....
I have a friend who just recently had a miscarriage, this was what she said her 5th miscarriage, I know how hard miscarriages and losing a child can be so I talked to her put my life on hold and helped her out as much as possible since I know what she is going through.. I asked her if they were going ot look into why she keeps having all these miscarriages and she said they werem't and I wasn't trying to pry and I said well that doesnt seem right we live in Canada and from what I undertsnad after so many the doctors need to find out why it happens and she said well its not like I had a baby and it died like your did, so no they wont figure out why.. I was kinda stunned I have had 4 miscarriages and have been to see specialists and what not to find out why this is happening... my husband thinks she was making it up about the miscarriages so that she would get attention... she also is giving me grief b/c she likes to party more then I do... I am trying to conceive so obviously not going to be going through the party stage right now... she wont leave this to rest she actually has quit talking to me b/c I wouldnt go drink with her, all this time she is also trying to have a baby.. what am I supposed to think??? Am I wrong for not wanting to drink when trying to conceive??? Iam sorry about this rant ladies but Im soo stressed out it sucks and I dont know how much more I can take anymore...
OOO and on a good note I ovulated for sure this month and thats the 1st time since I got pregnant with Rennon over a year ago so Im trying to be optomistic here... she says to me qwell I wouldnt get excited if I were you its just ovulation..
Thanks for listening to me cry girls its been a hard month
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and yes this is a great place to vent. Everyone here understands. I'm so sorry for your loss. Your friend doesn't sound like shes a true friend. She should know what you have been through and be supportive. And she shouldn't really be bugging you about drinking. I don't blame you I don't like to drink now. I will do anything to be pg again. Maybe she is lying about the m/c's who knows. My mouth dropped when she made that comment about her not having a baby that died like you. How insensitive!!!! You try to help her & she says that to you. Yay, for the big O 
That's exciting!!!! So good luck girl!!!
Thank you Mistyx5 for my siggy.
month. I'm sorry that there are crappy people out there, and most times it is the good people who have to endure them. Just know that you have friends here who have suffered similar losses, and we are here for you 
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