[mommy jenn]

ok vent time!!!

im so mad!!! i go onto my face book and what do i see a congrats from this girl that i knew years ago that i had a fall out with saying congrats on the pregnancy!!! what the hell!!! someone in my family has a big mouth and needs a punch in the head!!!! geeee im so made i just sent her a msg and said i had no idea what she was talking about and i asked her who told her that!!! geepers im mad!? why? ill get over it grrrrrrrrr mad mad MAD!!!!

[keekopeeko]

yeh.... that sucks...

JUST yesterday, at the grocery store, i had someone look at me all confused and say "oh i thought you were pregnant!" ... and it was from the one i lost in OCTOBER... (we havent told ppl about this one)...

~Em

[mommy jenn]

yeah im not going to tell ANYONE with the next one. we going to tell our parents at 8 or 10 wks and then we will let everyone find out when they see my bump, at like 20 wks i will speak to my boss and tell him the story... otherwise im not keen to feel like and idiot again!! thats for dam sure!!!

[Eleysia]

Wow some people definatly aren't the brightest crayon in the box. I'm right there with you guys though. If and when we get our sticky bean it will be me and DH and our son (2 years old) who will know until my belly grows for everyone to see. I'm so scared of going through the embarrassment again of having to untell everyone. I definatly learned my lesson

[mommy jenn]

Eleysia i totally agree with you!! to tell everyone that your baby died is sooooo hard!! that was serious punishment for me, now apparently i will only get my bfp in June/July says brooke and cheri and i feel like i want to climb under a rock for those 3 months to get over myself... geee im mad!!!

[Brittanie]

I'm sorry honey!! I lost my baby at the end, so it was a little different for me (instead of "congrats on the pregnancy" it was "oh, how's the baby??"). But it hurts, it really does. I totally understand not telling anyone. I told everyone I was pregnant with Cora the day I found out. I didn't tell anyone irl with Erin until I was a couple months along.

[Melanie0507]

Jenn. So sorry you had to deal with that! I actually posted a blog on my MySpace about losing the baby so that people wouldn't keep asking me about it.

And I agree with everyone else, next time, many fewer people will know, atleast until I see a hb. I hope that will cause us less heartache...

[~*Sam*~]

I hear you all on the waiting to tell people. This is a total trend among this board. I too have decided that it will be DH and I to know right away and I will tell our parents, but otherwise we're not telling ANYONE. They can just take the hint from my growing belly when the time comes, even then I won't just tell people I'm PG.