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March 19th, 2008, 11:11 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Well I should've started my af today if my cycle is 25 days again. I took a test this morning and  So, the last few days my boobs have been very sore, and I'm very emotional. I guess maybe  will show up this evening or tomorrow. If not, I'll POAS again. I'm just feeling worn out. I'm tired! I just want to get pg and have it stick this time around!! It seems like I've been having these "days" a lot these past weeks. Anyway, thanks for listening!
Well, I'm officially on cd26, 12dpo. Still no af and I took a FRER test and it was BFN  I have been 25-26 days lately. I don't know what's wrong with me. I was so hoping this was it. I have 1 more test and if I don't start today, maybe I'll test tomorrow or wait until Saturday (that would be cd28, 14dpo.) Do you think it could just still be too early? I hope so!!!
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March 19th, 2008, 11:26 AM
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So sorry for the BFN. I hope AF stays away and its just to early still.
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March 19th, 2008, 12:34 PM
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Mega Super Mom2Morgan
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oh i am so sorry... but you never know, just test again soon, did you def O?
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March 19th, 2008, 01:17 PM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Jenn, Yea I o'd. I did the opks and I o'd on cd14. Who knows!!!!
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March 19th, 2008, 01:35 PM
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Michelle, don't give up yet!! It sounds like there is still a chance!
I am sorry.. I feel for you.  I hate that let down feeling I"ve been getting every month after holding on to hope each time I start a new cycle.
KUP.. .and remember, it's not over yet!
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March 19th, 2008, 01:44 PM
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Michelle, if you are only 11DPO it may jus be too early for a BFP
With my last pregnancy 10DPO=BFN, 13DPO=BFP
It's not over yet.
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March 19th, 2008, 03:01 PM
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I'm crossing my finger for you that it is just too early. you and your  and in my T&P
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March 19th, 2008, 03:07 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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My fingers are cross too and don't give up just yet as it
may have been just to early
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March 19th, 2008, 03:31 PM
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i know its hard...
Keep us posted.
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March 19th, 2008, 06:15 PM
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 Michelle
I am just really hoping that it is too early and you get a nice, dark BFP in a couple days!
KUP
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March 19th, 2008, 06:21 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I too have been having those days more often than not, they SUCK!!
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March 19th, 2008, 07:43 PM
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I agree... it's not over till the witch shows
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March 19th, 2008, 09:21 PM
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I'll be crossing my fingers, legs and toes for you!
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March 20th, 2008, 04:30 AM
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 I hope it was just too early
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March 20th, 2008, 05:31 AM
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Aw sweetie I'm sorry you got a bfn  but it still could be too early. I hope she stays away. I know I hate seeing those bfn too. Is it to much to ask for all of us to get BFP soon!!!
Megan
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March 20th, 2008, 06:27 AM
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Well, today is day 26, 12dpo. I haven't started yet. So, off to buy FRER tests. I'll let you know.
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March 20th, 2008, 09:59 AM
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update at top
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March 20th, 2008, 10:11 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm hoping it's just early!! Are you charting at all?
ETA: I just saw that you posted you got a + opk on th cd14? I did read that you usually ovulate 12-48 hours after your surge, so you might have O'd a little later than you thought? I sure hope so!!
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March 20th, 2008, 10:13 AM
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I def think you could still be too early. It is a great sign that AF hasn't shown yet! I will say (and I am not trying to convince you to do this *wink*) but my fmu tests are not as dark as my evening pee tests. I think there are a few others here with that issue so maybe you are like one of us  Sending you tons and tons of baby dust!
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March 20th, 2008, 10:45 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Thanks ladies. I did try the FRER around 11 when I got home. It was still -. I'll see how things go tomorrow. I should've bought a 3 pack instead of 2. I really want to try to wait until Saturday to test again...........but I know that will never work. I'm addicted
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