[Danica]

I know, back so soon


I need your help. I am worried a bit. I thought we were safe with holding out on dtd until after my temp rise. Well I am now wondering if that was just a freak temp rise because I never really had much CM. Just a little wet so I considered it "watery". I never got EWCM. Well yesterday I had tons of it and of course we dtd because I didn't think much of it since I figured I already O'd but today my temp rose again. Not as high as the highest temp but a bit coincedental with the EWCM. I didn't have much EWCM during the day but then again tonight there is a lot again. AHHH. Do you guys think I O'd on the 12th or 18th or some other time, maybe not yet? Oh yeah, I did have spotting on the 13th so I figured thats when the egg popped out of the follicle but then I read that it can happen before ovulation because of the drop in estrogen (or rise, can't remember which one) so I am totally dumdfounded as to what is going on. AND I had pains in my left ovary yesterday. Thanks for your insight oh wise ones


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[Melanie0507]

Well Danica, I just started temping this month, but in my amateur opinion, I would lean towards you Oing on the 13th like you originally thought.

But, I don't know why you'd be getting lots of EWCM now if you've already O'd, so I really don't know.

I wish I had better info for you! And I hope that whatever you want to happen this month, does happen

[*Bobbie*]

Danica,

It is looking like CD 18 to me. A couple more temps and CM observations and it should be a little more clear.

I wish I had your BD stats. Dave is not being a good sport this month

[Danica]

Thanks for your input! I just don't know. My temps are all over the place. I just really wish I bought the bbt thermometor at the beginning of my cycle so I could have a better picture.

Bobbie, our stats aren't normally like that but we had both been going through withdraw since the beginning of the month was not very active. We were all taking turns being sick. ACK! I looked at your chart though and it still looks good to me. It looks like you had a double hitter a couple days before your O. Are you feeling lucky this cycle?

Melanie, I totally don't know what I want to happen I had accepted that I had O'd and we were taking the month off but now I am sort of excited to "maybe" be in the 2ww. I am a glutton for punishment.

[MaMaTuTu]

Ditto to Bobbie, my guess right now is CD18. And it's a temp drop that happens from the estrogen , though not all women show it on their charts. Good luck!!

[steph&dam]

Danica, I have charted for about 9 mo's. What I am not seeing is the 0.4 tenths of a drop to indicated LH surge. I think because you were sick, that your temp's are truely indicating when you are having your LH surge. Are you doing OPK's? I think that you need to trust your CM more than your temps this month. With that in mind, I would go with the 18th. However, how long is your cycle? Oing on cd 18 should make your cycle around 31 -32 days.

[LindsLuvsSi]

to CD 18! Can't wait to see your next temps!!

[mommy jenn]

your temps are allll over the place but i think when you spotted that could have been the folical... i spotted one day this cycle on cd 13 i think and ff put that as my O day... my temps are so stable its scary but i think the vitex is helping with that... have you tried vitex??? very good stuff that!!

i know you not trying this cycle but even so good luck and loads of baby dust!!!!

[jademyst13]

Sorry I have no clue on charts

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I have no clue on charts either. Sorry! But good luck to you Danica

[Danica]

Thanks again for all the input!

Stephanie, you know prior to my first m/c in September I had a 30-31 day cycle but after my m/c it was more like 29 days. Maybe it's just going back to by pre-m/c cycle? I guess it sort of makes sense because even with Naden they pushed my due date back 6 days and with my first two m/c's the doc told me based on my hcg he thought I was a week behind where my lmp would have put me so maybe I am just ovulating late again? Who knows. This is frustrating.

[MrsPoe]

From the looks of it I would say cd 18 too, but I guess you will just have to wait another day or two to see what your temp does. Also I thought I would mention that after my mc's I had a shorter LP. So even if you o'd on cd 18, your cycle could still be 29 days with an 11 day LP. GL and I know you weren't trying, but I hope you get your sticky bfp!