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March 20th, 2008, 11:37 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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So, after months of medical drama, I am finally given the green light to TTC, and I was pretty darn excited. Well, I decided to do some acupuncture just to enhance my chances of getting a healthy egg this go round. Well, my body has acted like it's going to ovulate twice now and twice it decides otherwise this cycle. I am so fed up with all this. I am drying up again, and I really don't think I am going to ovulate this month. I had awesome EWCM last month, but I wasn't ready to go just yet. Why, oh why?!!!
I am sorry, I just need to vent a little. I am one month past my 1st angel's due date and coming up real fast on #2's due date. I just want to be pregnant with a healthy baby, I just want what is so irritatingly easy for so many women.
For the first time in a long time, I feel like crying. 
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March 21st, 2008, 09:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
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I'm sorry that youre having trouble. I think alot of us are a having frustrating / sad month. It's hard to try to stay optomistic all the time. If you need to cry do it, you'll feel better afterwards. If you need anything we are here for you ((((((((((Big hugs)))))))))))))))
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March 21st, 2008, 10:12 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
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Victoria...
If it helps any with my last BFP I didn't have much CM at all. I read somewhere that drinking lots of water and cutting out coffee is very helpful with CM.
I hope you O soon. I too would be very frustrated.
Lots of 
and O 
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step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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March 21st, 2008, 02:32 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
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Victoria
Trust me when I say I know exactly how you are feeling! I don't know what's going on with us this month, but come on...this is getting rediculous!!!
I really hope you O soon and that you get a beautiful BFP in a couple weeks!
And cry if you want to...I did last weekend and I felt better afterwards 
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Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12 
 
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March 21st, 2008, 06:05 PM
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Maybe you did O and your temps are being weird??? i have no idea... But i agree with the other girls CRY is out! ive done it a TON... I think between now and october (my miscarriage) ive cried more than i have in my entire life.... This WHOLE darned process is just SOOO stressful... losing your baby... not getting bfps, not understanding your body, just wanting something SO desperately, getting pregnant, stressing over new baby... Its really hard on a girl!
~Em
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March 21st, 2008, 06:13 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: California
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Maybe you did O and your temps are being weird??? i have no idea... But i agree with the other girls CRY is out! ive done it a TON... I think between now and october (my miscarriage) ive cried more than i have in my entire life.... This WHOLE darned process is just SOOO stressful... losing your baby... not getting bfps, not understanding your body, just wanting something SO desperately, getting pregnant, stressing over new baby... Its really hard on a girl!
~Em[/b]
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So True!!!
Victoria you have been through so much and have remained so strong through it all. Cry it out girl, you will feel better and more stress will be relieved. Im so excited you get to try again, I hope and pray you get a very sticky bean very soon!!!
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March 21st, 2008, 07:15 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
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I'm sorry that you are having such a rough month. I have to agree with Eleysia, that this is a sad month for a lot of us. Just know you're in my thoughts and prayers. take care
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Loving wife to Paul
Proud Mommy to Lukas, Saul (our Angel), Daisy and Elias
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March 21st, 2008, 11:39 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies, I appreciate the kind thoughts and words. The weird thing is I started having pretty good O pains today after I officially gave up in my mind. Today I woke up and decided I was going to be okay with this being an anolulatory cycle, but now it's like my body is playing tricks on me. I took another OPK this evening. 110% NEGATIVE..... 
I just want to be completely ignorant again and not know anything about charting or OPK's or any of this stuff. I honestly believe I am thinking about it SOOO much that it is delaying things. I try my best to keep myself busy and keep my mind occupied, but my mind keeps coming back to wondering when I am going to o.
I am officially going crazy ladies, who is there with me?? 
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March 22nd, 2008, 05:22 AM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Ohio
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I'm with you. I never thought we would have to work so hard to get pg. All the charting, temp, and stuff can drive a person crazy. I really hope you do O soon. Keep your head up sweetie!
Megan
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March 22nd, 2008, 05:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ohio
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I am officially going crazy ladies, who is there with me?? [/b]
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(((jumping up and down))) I am, I am!!!
This TTC business is for the birds!!
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Melanie (&Thad)
Proud Parents to: Branden 10/28/1997 Owen 5/17/09 (Born with Hirschsprung's Disease) And expecting our newest addition 5/7/12
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March 22nd, 2008, 07:35 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
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Same here. I'm with you. It is too frustrating. I hope you o soon and get a beautiful bfp this cycle. I have everything crossed for you on my end.
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