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March 22nd, 2008, 08:08 AM
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Well, I was 2 days late. I took tests and I was still hopeful though. Then yesterday comes full force So, of course I cried. My dh said that he doesn't understand why I get upset every month. He told me to go down the street and find someone who can get me pregnant since that's all I care about. WTH? I have NEVER said that. We don't even know if there is a problem. He says it will happen if and when it's meant to be. I wish I felt like that. I hate being obsessed with all this #####. To top it all off, it's been 7 months today that I lost my baby! This sucks!!! So, I have one more shot to have a 2008 baby. I will OPK, temp, drink lots of water, green tea, whatever it takes this month. If I get pg, I will be due Christmas day. (which I didn't really want, but at this point I'll take what I can get) If it doesn't happen, then I give up. No more opk, temp, nothing. I'll just go with the flow, so to speak. So, please send tons of sticky dust. I send tons to all you ladies!!! Lets get us those Dec babies
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March 22nd, 2008, 08:34 AM
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Aw sweetie, I'm so sorry you are having a bad day and that AF showed up late. I think men will never really understand what it feels like each month that goes by. My husband says the same thing if it's meant to happen it will. I hate that!!! I really hope you get that BFP soon and christmas day would be an extra special gift. That would be my edd too if I got pg that cycle. So here's to us and getting our BFP's!!!





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March 22nd, 2008, 08:55 AM
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Oh man, I am sorry. It is always such a huge let down when the witch shows I'll be sending you tons of dust!
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March 22nd, 2008, 09:18 AM
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That just sucks! I agree men just don't see things the way we do.
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March 22nd, 2008, 10:21 AM
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I'm so sorry about your day, hun. Men just don't get it. Mine was cooperative, but quiet about it. When asked how many children I have, I always say 3 and include their ages, 2, 13, and 40.

I'm keeping you in prayer sweetie
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March 22nd, 2008, 10:34 AM
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I'm sorry she showed! Lots of *dust* for this cycle!
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March 22nd, 2008, 11:56 AM
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I'm sorry that you are so frustrated. What a crappy thing for DH to say. He's probably frustrated too. You're in my T & P. Take Care
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March 22nd, 2008, 02:35 PM
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I'm sorry....AF sucks!! I am sorry that your DH made that comment too. TTC can be so frustrating and heartbreaking. Maybe he is starting to feel like it is his fault or something. I know my DH is always so darn proud of his "boys" when they hit their target. I think men have this underlying feeling of responsibility when it comes to us getting pregnant. I hope thw two of you can talk about it and maybe that will help him and you feel better.
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