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March 24th, 2008, 03:46 PM
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I wish I had a pic for you, but it doesn't show up hardly at all in the pics, but I can see it on the strip! I'm hoping it's an evap or we've got a problem . . . the only reason I tested was bc #1 spending the money and #2 POAS *should* get AF to show, right?  So I went out and got a couple dollar cheapies. It showed within the 1 - 3 minutes and got darker as it dried. it's still pretty light so I'm hoping for evap!!!
I thought AF should show on Friday. 2 days before I had a tiny bit of brown spotting so I thought she was on her way. But now since Friday I've had 4 days of cramps and then today I thought she started (pink spotting) but nope, that's gone now too! my bbs have been twinging which I thought was weird. have a few other preggochondria symptoms too.
so right now I'm freaking out. I talked to the nurse today (before I tested) and she said if AF doesn't show in a week (or if I get a +) to come in. I know cycles can be messed up after a m/c - but to have these either pg or AF symptoms for 4 days after she's due and only spotting, no flow?? WTH?
If by some miracle I did get pg, that means there's a tiny hole in my uterus somewhere and it'd be alot easier for a swimming sperm to get OUT than a floating egg to get IN. I don't want another ectopic!!!!!
I'll probably test again tomorrow if AF still hasn't shown.
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March 24th, 2008, 04:32 PM
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Aww I hope you get the outcome your hoping for. Cant wait to see a picture of tomorrow's test.
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March 24th, 2008, 04:45 PM
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wow!! with no tubes it would definitely be a miracle if you are preg!! keep us updated!!!!
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March 24th, 2008, 06:07 PM
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I just worry that with the rupture that maybe they didn't get it all stitched back up? What if they missed a tiny spot? What if the bad cramping from the m/c tore something? That stupid weak spot!!!
I keep looking at that test . . . and checking for AF . . . normally if I start to cramp AF is there within an hour. But 4 days of cramps??? and no AF??? Then I think, what are the odds. There's no way this could happen. But then I look at my history . . . none of that should have happened either.
If AF doesn't show and if tomorrow's test looks the same or darker first I'm going to go get a better test than the cheapies. If that looks iffy I'll go in for a blood test. Can't be too careful.
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March 24th, 2008, 06:10 PM
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Wow, I hope it all works out for the best honey! IF there's something there by some miracle....I hope it implants far away from that weak spot! (but in the lining like it's supposed to!)
 I can't wait to hear about tomorrow's!
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March 24th, 2008, 06:15 PM
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March 24th, 2008, 06:36 PM
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Wow Anne, that would really be a miracle if it did happen...but, stranger things have happened!
What did the nurse say, was she concerned??
I can't wait to see the next tests! g/l Anne
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March 25th, 2008, 06:43 AM
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she didn't sound overly concerned, and kept saying that it might take awhile to show after a m/c, well, yeah I know that! took 6 weeks after my 2nd pg. but I am SURE I o'd, and now 5 days of cramps with no flow . . . that's not normal. I woke up early this am and didn't feel good, but that's passed and I feel fine now. I am just sooooo tired, I feel like I could sleep all day!
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March 25th, 2008, 06:50 AM
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hmmmmm.. i really hope this works out however "perfectly" it can work out..
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March 25th, 2008, 07:12 AM
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hmmmm that is strange but i hope u get the answer u need.
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March 25th, 2008, 07:48 AM
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Wow! Did you test today? Can't wait to hear how it's going.
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March 25th, 2008, 08:45 AM
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Wow, looks like you have alot going on  I hope that everything turns out the best for you guys. KUP and good luck hun
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March 25th, 2008, 08:50 AM
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Wow! Did you test today? Can't wait to hear how it's going.[/b]
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March 25th, 2008, 09:53 AM
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March 25th, 2008, 10:19 AM
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Wow, I hope it all works out for the best honey! IF there's something there by some miracle....I hope it implants far away from that weak spot! (but in the lining like it's supposed to!)
I can't wait to hear about tomorrow's![/b]
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March 25th, 2008, 10:34 AM
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Checking back for an update.....
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March 25th, 2008, 01:06 PM
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I'm trying to hold it for 4 hours so you all have another 1/2 to wait!  I just wish AF would start already!!!
I just got my Jenny reading back. I did ask her too about right now, what the heck is going on. But somehow I don't think this one's going to come true. I mean, it'd be wonderful, but . . .
We are NOT planning on doing the FET before July, unless we win the lottery or something. we're actually going to be up in Canada at the end of May/beginning of June so the FET isn't happening in June!
Nope I don't see that you are pregnant right at this moment. However, your reading does show a BFP the month of June 2008 from a cycle that begins in May 2008. The baby shows as a boy and his EDD/birthdate is referenced the month of February 2009 - specific reference to the 23rd.
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March 25th, 2008, 01:53 PM
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snow-white BFN!!!  I don't think I have ever been so relieved!!! (not that I don't want to be pg!!! but you all KWIM!!)
thanks for obsessing with me! Poor DH, I don't know how he puts up with me!
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March 25th, 2008, 01:58 PM
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*PHEW* Now where-o-where is AF! Come on witch, SHOW!
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March 25th, 2008, 05:44 PM
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Oooohhh!!! I hope Jenny is right!!!!
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