Can I join?

Sebastians_mom · #1 March 25th, 2008, 08:55 PM

My name is Natasha

I lost my son at 4 days old on February 29th, 08. While we are not ready to conceive yet because of c-section healing and emotional healing, it is something we will be doing in the not to distant future I hope. I don't really feel like I belong in my DDC anymore, and while I love the support in the Pregnancy Loss board I feel it would be nice to be around some women who are a step ahead of me and going through what I will be soon. I am hoping you ladies will be my inspiration

Brittanie · #2 March 25th, 2008, 08:57 PM

I joined this board a few months before I was actually ready to TTC again. And I never left. You might want to double think it, they suck you in!

It takes courage to TTC again, and I think I joined early because I needed to get used to the idea.

Welcome up!

..Jessica.. · #3 March 25th, 2008, 09:04 PM

Hello & Welcome Natasha!

I'm very sorry to hear you lost your precious Sebastian!

I'm not actively TTC right now, but I can't bare to leave this board! These ladies are quite amazing!!! I hope we can give you the support you need!!!

Danica · #4 March 25th, 2008, 09:06 PM

Hi Natasha,

I am so sorry you lost your little Sebastian. I am glad you found your way over here though. There are many ladies here that are waiting to TTC. We love new members! This is a fun group and I can honestly so I have learned soooo much about fertility just from hanging out here. I look forward to getting to know you better!

--Danica

Melanie0507 · #5 March 26th, 2008, 06:17 AM

Hi Natasha

I am so sorry for your loss, but I am glad you found your way over here. I, too, joined before I was actually TTC and it was GREAT! This is a great group of women and we have a lot of fun!

I look forward to getting to know you

*Bobbie* · #6 March 26th, 2008, 07:54 AM

Hi Natasha

I am so glad you found your way over here.

Put up your feet grab a cup of coffee and jump right in

Eleysia · #7 March 26th, 2008, 09:20 AM

Hey Natasha,

I'm sorry about precious Sebastian, and hope you decide to hang out with us. Please feel free to jump in, but like Britt said you probably won't make it out of here once you are in lol. I am still waiting for my body to recover from my loss as well, but am going to TTC soon like you. Hope to get to know you, don't be a stranger.

Eleysia

I just wanted to add that I went to Sebastian's site, and read his and your story. I think you are an amazing person for letting everyone know this, it was very moving. He is beautiful Natasha.

jademyst13 · #8 March 26th, 2008, 09:34 AM

I've met you over in PL, and I am glad to see you joining us here, though I wish you didn't have to. I joined a few months before I went back to TTC and there are a few other ladies here that are still waiting. I think you will come to like it here.

mommy jenn · #9 March 26th, 2008, 09:34 AM

hi tash!! welcome, these ladies are the best thing in the world. i dont know then buy face but i know them by there friendly nature. if i wasnt for this board i would still be mourning and feeling horribly sorry fo myself, they gave the strength to move on and to think that if i can fall pregnant once i can do it again!!
i am terribly sorry for your loss, i could never say i know how you feel as i lost mine early one, your little one is gorgeous and he will watch over you forever!!!

mom 2 haley & tyler · #10 March 26th, 2008, 11:16 AM

Welcome! I'm sorry for your loss. The ladies here are very supportive. I hope we can somehow help you heal and get on to ttc again. good luck to you!

greenchild · #11 March 26th, 2008, 11:29 AM

welcome to the board!

I am so sorry for your loss! I'm not actively TTC either, heck my cycles don't even matter anymore bc now any TTC cycle will be planned for and medicated in advance. but I've been here almost since I joined JM and it's true, it's like you never want to leave!

it is nice to have ladies to obsess with you about your cycles and what symptoms you have, and just a bunch of all around good fun!

~*Sam*~ · #12 March 26th, 2008, 12:46 PM

Hello Aussielady! I just want to say first of all I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. I read little Sebastian's story and it broke my heart. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Welcome!

lynie07 · #13 March 26th, 2008, 03:37 PM

Hi Natasha,
Welcome to this wonderful group of ladies they are just the best.
l am so sorry to hear you lost your litttle Sebastian he is so adorable.
hey by the way l'm an Aussie too

MrsPoe · #14 March 26th, 2008, 03:50 PM

Hi Natasha,

I am so sorry for your loss. I came here when I was wttc, because I wanted to get to know these great bunch of ladies and they almost always give me a good laugh when I need it the most. I am looking forward to getting to know you better. How long are you supposed to wait before you ttc?

ShannonMVT · #15 March 27th, 2008, 08:50 AM

We would love to have you here. I joined here before I was actually TTC also so feel free to dive in.

We are here to talk about ttc AND how much you miss your little angel.

Pound · #16 March 27th, 2008, 06:26 PM

natasha, i'm so sorry about your son.
i just had a m/c, and am not ttc just yet, but wanted to join because i will be ttc soon. so you're not the only one who isn't actually ttc yet! there are some others as well.