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Marley failed her hearing scan in the hospital, so we had an appointment scheduled for when she was a month old. Well, it was a different test, but still just a "screening" not a diagnostics, so if she failed that, it's still not a worry, we just need to go up a level in testing (uh, then, whats the point in even HAVING that middle step?) So we went to that, and still "failed" it's only one ear that just isn't passing, so we rescheduled the diagnostic test for today.
They recommend that the baby is sleeping, and to feed them at the beginning so they pass out, well of course, at a month, this was easy, marleys a great sleeper once shes out, but now, being her ripe old age of 6 weeks, shes decided she doesn't want anything to DO with sleeping for the majority of the day.
Plus, she is such a messy/fussy eater, that I'd rather feed her at the comfort of home, not in a waiting room.. so I fed her before we left, and NORMALLY the car puts her to sleep, but like I said, she doesn't WANT to sleep anymore, so it didn't work, at all. Shes WIDE awake, happiest baby, smiling at me and all, I want to PLAY with my baby, not try to force her to sleep, and I'm pissed off about this stupid test anyways, and the doctors like, well I'll give you ten minutes to put her to sleep, I'm like you can give me two hours, it's not gunna happen.. hes like, can't you nurse her to sleep? Well, shes FF, and I'm not risking a sick/upset/spitty baby over sleep. the "recommended" sleeping, is actually a necessity, the won't do the test without her sleeping, fine I get it, but YEAH RIGHT like I'm going to mess with her schedule and feed her at random times and try and make her sleep when shes wiide awake, it's not going to happen. BLAH, point of vent, we gave up, and it's now rescheduled for another month, where it's going to be even WORSE getting her to sleep. But this high and mighty doctor was like, actually MAD at me for her not sleeping, short of drugging her NOTHING was going to do it, so sorry.. he was just ridiculous, and as we were leaving the receptionist was like "well, we will try again, now that you know what we want" well that fantastic you WANT those things, I just don't see how it's plausible to assume babies will sleep, ESPECIALLY when even if she DID fall asleep, they are sticking electrodes on her, and she has to wear a like ear muff that has sounds coming through, and if she failed that, he'd have to physically look inside her ear and whatever else, HELLO, what child is going to soundly sleep through that? Props to babies that would.. not mine though.
blah, this was a lot longer then expected, I'm just so frustrated we now have to go back AGAIN.
Plus, I don't think ANYTHING is wrong with her ear, so I'm having a hard time justifying these stupid things.