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We got into a huge argument. He's decided he no longer wants to even try for a girl. He's happy with the five children we have and thinks thats how I should feel. Especially with how stressed I feel some days. I just can't. I have always wanted a little girl, but he thinks I should just wait for a granddaughter and spoil her. But it wouldn't be the same as concieving and carrying your own baby! My dh says that it would be better cuz then when they are grumpy from teething like Lennox you can give them to their parents. But I want to be the one experiencing all the firsts with my own daughter, not have to hope and wait that my kid has one. Plus I told him that having another baby is the only way to make sure we don't have any more kids as I won't take bc, but I'd be willing to get my tubes tied after the baby is born. I said you didn't get your vasectomy so it's up to me to take care of myself and the only way I'm doing that is if we try and I mean try for a little girl. I showed him the article on here called how to concieve a girl. That's when it got worse.
We were ntnp, but now I don't even want to have sex with him for fear that if I do get pregnant he will be so mad and leave me. We were talking about trying later this year and now he says his family is complete. It makes me so mad! We both wanted a little girl since i can remember. We had the name Gabrielle Marie picked out since the first time I got pregnant back in early 1992.
After I had Lennox I did think I was done, but then Chad didn't get snipped so I thought it was a sign that we'd have one more. But now with how heated the argument got I think my chances of having another baby even if it is a boy are gone! I'm just so sad! I want to try for my little girl! I'm the only one of the 4 siblings I have that have children that doesn't have a girl and everyone has more than one. My brother Eddie has 2 girls, my brother Matt has 3, my brother Steve has 3 and my sister Ramona has 4. Why couldn't I have been lucky to have a girl too!
Sorry about the rant! Thanks for reading btw!
Simone SAHM to 5 boys Trenton 19, Tyler 17, twins Peyton and Eli 7, & Lennox 4 My Chart